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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, December 16th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So for now, I am going to be all "fuck it" and skull and cross-boney. Let me have my bitch moment please. Don't kumbya-me.

Willowiris's reaction to someone consoling her for her rant after she gave up on dating. Again.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5134 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, December 17th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

InnerDemons - Then I will kill and gut a moose with my bare hands to maintain manliness.

Directly after he talked about painting his wifes bedroom etc. LOL


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3228 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, December 18th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd rather be alone 100 years than live a lie of an unfaithful marriage with diamonds on every finger.

will get by

talking about an advertisement by a jewelry store with the caption "it sucks to be alone".


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, December 19th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now, my ex is a complete jackass, so the only way I'd sit down with a bottle of wine with him is if I were toasting his dead, cold body
.
Catwoman in a thread in NB about X's and boundaries.


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, December 22nd (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

isitworthit's thread was about her insensitive MIL telling her she should have been thankful for her WH's deciding to stay around; she had mentioned being thankful for everyone BUT him.

Broken10 suggested the following:

"I am so thankful for MR IIWI who has decided to keep his penis in his pants. Amen."


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19968 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, December 24th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

W T H!
Who DOES that?

Holly-Isis, a Slobobian Ditch Pig who bears a shocking resemblance to Shrek wearing lipstick

StepAside explaining who takes pictures with a mouth full of semen and posts it on the internet.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=386947


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24416 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Junebug0525
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, December 26th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When he kept saying this - I just asked if he tripped and "accidently" screwed her multiple times.

isadora on what it means when they say "I never meant to hurt you"


Me: BS
Him: WXH DDay-11/22/2009~ D~ 10/25/10
OWhore: Co-worker (7 years younger)
"Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." AND THEY DID!!!

Posts: 1139 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Maryland
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, December 28th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MissesJai regarding KISA syndrome:

try saving yourself and this marriage...your family needs you..everybody else can kick rocks.

Amen, sister.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10627 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unless you told him it was OK to go fuck any little twat that will spread her legs, then it's 100% on him.

gma to a newbie on why the affair is NOT her fault...

I love this because I am always so "careful" with the newbie advice and this is so - perfect.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5753 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
punky
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, January 1st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The problem with the waiting game is that you may end up waiting a lifetime.

HowMany in the Caught Again...thread.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

Posts: 11294 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
StepAside
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 5th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He wants a game of ping pong- he can have it. But he better have his A GAME. He doesn't realize I am a Forest Fuckin Gump when it will come to this ping pong game.

Heartbroken1993 in the R forum, regarding her epiphany that she is 'done'!


Me 48yrs, douche midlife crisis poster boy- 50yrs
too many A's to bother to count, he is a predator that targets loosers like himself
Last Dday April 12/10-Divorcing
We live in a world where the fear of illusion is real

Posts: 1513 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, January 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some people just do not realize that real love is more than just a tingly sensation in your naughty bits. They use "love" as an excuse for cheating and then marry their APs in the name of that same "love". And then the tingly sensation wears off and they find someone else.

People like this should be tagged before being released into the wild. So the rest of us know to avoid them.

damncutekitty


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5753 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
CB1971
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, January 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just discovered this thread and wept. I wept because I've wasted so many years not reading this thread.


40, Former BH
D-day: 7/06
Divorced: 4/09

Posts: 406 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Kansas
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 6:13 PM, January 9th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

USMC-Wife on the private parts shaving by males thread:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389362&AP=41

God forbid I have a trigger while the boys are in one hand & the razor in the other.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 1:23 AM, January 11th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NC_Fool in a thread about friends that knew about the affair and/or encouraged the BS to cheat in return or leave the WS:

Here's my take on friends & family when it comes to their thoughts, opinions & advice. Everyone has a opinion & can think & believe whatever they want. I don't care.

They can love me, hate me or kiss my ass. I'll let them decide which one they want to do.

And the reason I have this attitude is most of the people see this as juicey drama at someone elses expense. It's like a car crash and they are all rubber neckers.

And i don't have time for their bull crap. I have to concentrate on fixing what I screwed up. I need to work on helping my BS recover from my stupidity, fix my marriage & love my BS with all my heart.

And it's alot of work. I don't have time for friends and/or family putting in their 2 cents. I will stomp on anyone who tries to interfer with my BS recovery or happiness. My BS is all that matters. No one elses opinion, thought & gossip matters.

At the end of the day all I need is my wife & kids. EVERYONE else will be shown the door if they can't be a contructive part of my BS & my life.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389648


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 1:33 AM, January 11th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

New Joy comments on the thread about Pinnochio being a trigger:

I think my WH has another version of that movie in his head. The way he acted it was if the more lies he told the more his penis would grow!

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389725

[This message edited by unicornsearcher at 4:21 PM, January 11th (Tuesday)]


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 11th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seems to me that not doing anything destructive to our M shouldn't be part of any "deal," that it should be automatic.

Crossbow


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 36811 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 11th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tsol25 after quoting her H's chat to someone else complaining how hard it is to pick women up:

Can I just say, sorry hun don't feel bad for you because WE WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP THEREFORE YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TROUBLES PICKING UP GIRLS BECAUSE YOU SHOULDN'T BE FUCKING TRYING!!

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=389382&HL=29461


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, January 12th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Imagine yourself as a Verizon commercial with the guy standing there with tons of people behind him! There you are with your attorney next to you, your parents behind you and all the members of SI behind you - giving you support and coverage. FT will get the message loud and clear. Stay strong!

This is a quote from Sapphire to Alexmama in a D & S thread - Alexmama was doubting her actions in filing. It is a powerful image that perfectly describes how I feel about SI.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5032 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, January 13th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But we see a lot of "I am going to," and a dearth of "I did."

Catwoman on doing as opposed to talking


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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