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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
usedup
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, December 17th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you..my holiday messages are so hallmark worthy...I'm sure they are gonna call me any day for the rights to this

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deathbybetrayal
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, December 17th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can't deal with "normal" marriage issues until you deal with the fallout of the affair. That's like lighting a Yankee candle right before company comes, but totally ignoring the steaming pile of dog crap laying on your carpet.

Miss Lauryn's comment in R referring to a MC's comment about an A being a symptom of an unhappy marriage and how the couple needed to work on those issues.


Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008

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usedup
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, December 18th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unfound responding about a new member's ws condom box purchase

*how many are in a box? I'm picturing like shoe boxed sized. we don't buy condoms, obviously



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Miss Lauryn
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, December 23rd (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Miss Lauryn's comment in R referring to a MC's comment about an A being a symptom of an unhappy marriage and how the couple needed to work on those issues.

Actually, you have it backwards. I said that the couple needs to clean up the affair issues BEFORE they can work on old marriage issues.

Sorry if that was unclear.


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deathbybetrayal
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, December 23rd (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"couple needs to clean up the affair issues BEFORE they can work on old marriage issues."

I get that and totally agree with what you said. The for the stupid MC having it in reverse. Just thought your reference to "pile of dog shit" was hilarious.


Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008

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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 7:49 PM, December 28th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fallen does it again!

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=330907&HL=25022

Relief, it's not that the A resulted in something good happening.

It's that you chose to make something better than what the A left you with.

You could have sat in the shattered pieces of your old marriage & lamented the loss without trying to heal.

Instead you allowed your WS to help you pick up those pieces & rebuild.

It's an amazing thing to go through something so horrible and to find a way through it together.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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lingerdog
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, December 29th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can someone explain to me the mechanics of this thread? Like are post to be quoted restricted to certain boards?


What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page

Posts: 8932 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Awesomeville
jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, December 29th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

in devtutor's MLC myth or reality? thread
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=333006&HL=19862

coasterrider asks;

Anyone else wish it'd been a red sports car and a Greek sailor's cap?



Posts: 6650 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
willowiris
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, December 30th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what's worse - the pain of infidelity or the crappy poetry that it inspires in APs
Hurtbs in a thread in which a member shared the OW's poem.


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, December 31st (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait... people internally censor what they say before it comes out of their mouth? I need to look into that.

Hurtbs on a thread about those days when you feel like saying exactly what you're thinking

[This message edited by wifehad5 at 9:51 AM, January 1st (Friday)]


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, December 31st (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just noticed I was quoted on here back in February.... I'm honoured.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 31st (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm as happy as a bird with a French Fry.

ajsmom today talking about her STBX being away.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17549 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
booger bear
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Content  Posted: 3:30 AM, January 5th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look for the good ...
challenge the bad ...
enjoy most of your days ...
never forget to be glad ...

My mom sent me this plaque wall hanging thingy with this on it ...

"When your work speaks for itself don't interrupt." Mark Twain

"People often say the motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily."
Zig Zigler

"Use the right word not it's second cousin."
Mark Twain

"No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit."
Helen Keller

[This message edited by booger bear at 4:59 AM, January 5th (Tuesday)]


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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Miss Lauryn
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, January 5th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

All these men who say they have affairs because their wives are shabby housewives. Yes I imagine they are watching OW clean the hotel room when they check into sleazy hotels on their lunchbreaks. Surely she is titilating him by showing him how well she can handle a Swiffer and vacuum perfect lines in the carpet..because you know..they aren't getting their domestic "needs" met at home and have to get it elsewhere.
Hmm perhaps instead of spending all that money wining and dining their OW and buying her thong panties and anal lube, they should hire a maid to bring home so BS can join in on the fun and watch her scrub the oven!

Yes ladies! Grab your feather dusters and toilet cleaner and your man will NEVER stray.

Evil Kitty on WH using "You don't keep the house clean" as an excuse for affair.


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HeartbrokeHope32
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, January 5th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG i'm so honored...i was quoted back in september...

hb's reply to newyears question about what the odds are of a marriage going long term with out cheating...
well i have been married 8 years and half the people in my marriage have never cheated...so I'm thinking 50%?


[This message edited by HeartbrokeHope32 at 1:01 PM, January 5th (Tuesday)]


me-29
him-28
Dday-11/07/07
"What lies behind us, and what lies
before us are small matters
compared to what lies within us."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, January 5th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're about as good or sensitive or caring as a horny badger on crack. How the fuck do you even find the time to chase down all these other women?! Don't you have a job? I mean other than a blow job.

a classic clueless blonde vent. this will live with me forever. thanks CB


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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neverendinghurt
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, January 7th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Star727 in her thread about telling her H that it was over.

"I'm excited! Can't wait till he leaves so I can get a puppy."


The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie

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devtutor
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, January 7th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The reason that your intellect can cause problems is, well, to put it one way, "when your only tool is a hammer all your problems look like nails."

TrulyReconciled in this thread:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=334394


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, January 8th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can't pull a straw out of your husband's eye, when you have a sequoia tree log in yours.
Floridaredman's wise words to a WW who is angry at her BH for smoking pot, while she continues to break NC.

[This message edited by authenticnow at 4:24 PM, January 8th (Friday)]


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, January 14th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

there are thugs in the Healing Library

Typo in JFO today...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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