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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, November 25th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Everyone has justifications to do things they want to do, even when they know on some level they are wrong. 'I know I'm wrong BUT I have this really good reason' is the beginning of so many poor decisions. I just think we should remember when we talk about right and wrong that it doesn't just concern one situation, infidelity, but is actually an entire lifestyle and way of thinking that extends to all areas of our lives. We have all been through too much here to let ourselves down.

Quoted from Circe.

Excellent thoughts.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45032 | Registered: Sep 2006
ImGonnaMakeIt
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, November 26th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If your man bits came in handy little bags that we could remove and feed to the dog like our turkey friends, life would be so much easier

Meta, on the F'ing Turkey Vent thread.

[This message edited by ImGonnaMakeIt at 12:10 PM, November 26th (Wednesday)]


BSO - 35

Together 5 yrs.
D-Day 1/6/12
Reconciling.
OC Born 11/2012
DD born 01/2014
I still love him but what I miss the most is the peace I felt loving him without the fear.


Posts: 2201 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: AZ
drowninginsorrow
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, November 28th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...my family is so much more lovable after I've had valium

uu on her thread about who had alcohol or meds for thanksgiving with family


Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics

Posts: 56712 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: canuckistan
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, December 1st (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Damncutekitty :
She probably thinks she's won the stupid American man lottery.
After my STBXWH left me and returned to OW in Thailand. It made me howl AHHHOOOO !!!! gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20384 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, December 6th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And you wanted to reconcile... why?????

Unless she's Claudia Schiffer on Spanish fly, I see no reason.

Suspicious Mind after reading a BH's not very flattering observations on his WS's personality quirks.

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Soldiersgirl
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, December 9th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Santa,

Due to previous bad experiences with a strange man emptying his sack in my wife's presence, I will be staying up all night on Christmas Eve/Morning to monitor things. I hope you understand and still bring me presents.

Signed,
A Wary Husband.[/qoute]

Used2beloved in the open letter part 2 thread. I'll never look at santa the same way


You can't buy love, but you can pay heavily for it. ~ Henny Youngman
No man was ever shot by his wife while doing the dishes. ~ Anon
It takes two to make a marriage a success and only one to make it a failure. ~ Herbert Samuel

Posts: 1375 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: Louisiana
usedup
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, December 10th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dis-thanks,it's true
I'm gonna think of santa in a whole new way also,thanks for posting that soldiersgirl

Posts: 15831 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: found
neverendinghurt
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, December 10th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"I was never leaving" "it was never about leaving" "I never planned to leave"...what am I supposed to make of that? is it like a major award for me? all it does is make me want to sandpaper his tongue and then glue it to the dogs ass

UU in her own vent thread


The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie

Posts: 26043 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: Seattle
usedup
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, December 11th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks NEH.

this is veritas in a thread in general about what if you never heal:

"Fucker didn't visit his kids today? What a dickhead. My poor children." instead of "Why can't my kids be in a 2-parent home? If only I had been smarter/prettier/better he could have been ignoring them at home!" There's no switch to turn your feelings on and off, but the more you choose to live a life authentic in the present, the more authentic your life will become.

I loved this

Posts: 15831 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: found
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, December 12th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It’s official. Kidsbane has finally admitted she likes pink.

Kids post to Used_And_Abused, whose signature line reads “Glitter in the Air – Pink”:

BTW I like your signature line.....but don't tell anyone I said that.


Me - Befuckled
WH - Limber at limbo *sigh*

Posts: 5040 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: mountain transplant
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, December 14th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's being treated like an adult with no right to secrecy. And since her kind of secrets are abusive to you and cause you injury, she has no right to them. Secrecy is not privacy. Privacy is shutting the door when you go to the bathroom. Secrecy is taking a cell phone in there with you and text messaging your AP. They are not the same thing.

Lady V on the difference between secrecy and privacy


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37471 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Regarding cheaters who congratulate & encourage themselves openly on the web,
Grace Under Fire says;

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised...even lepers had colonies.



Posts: 6674 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
love me or leave
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Default  Posted: 11:29 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're better off with the batteries if you want a pain free warranty

Kidsbane response to this freaked me out thread.....
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=267925&HL=16937


Posts: 12264 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: So Cal!!!!
kidsbane
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, December 17th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh shnap! I've been found out! can't get anything by that Gibbons!


And thanks LUV's....I've never had a battery hurt me yet! I stand by my statement.


We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb


Posts: 4647 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: SoCal
itspjw
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, December 20th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Why did they get to play but I had to pay"??

tracer in lostandafraid's All So Surreal - Just Some Thoughts....thread.

so, so true.


no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...

there's just too much that time cannot erase

dday 9/11/08

And the more I know, the less I understand

Because of you...I am afraid...


Posts: 14786 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: Texas
willowiris
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, December 22nd (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After one exhausting negotiations session (where the ex stormed out with his auxiliary penis clamped to his ear pouring out his woes to Twat-Waffle), HIS attorney invited me and my attorney to stay for a drink.

Catwoman in Balancing Act's thread about using affair photos as leverage in her divorce.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=268710


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


Posts: 12326 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: Margaritaville
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, December 23rd (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I look like a transvestite right now. I have glitter all over my hot sweaty body.

Noclue... on opening a card from cheer.


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, December 26th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Her relationship with OM is NOT some new freak of nature, soul mates made in heaven, we ARE different DAMMIT, relationship. Her affair is the equivelent of a 7/11 Slurpee - Oh sure, you may mix your own flavors together, but guess what? It's still a damned Slurpee.

Tputer in JFO


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, December 28th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ADs aren't like Cinderella's fairy godmother. They don't turn pumpkins and rats and rags into a better life.

Suspicious Mind in a thread about antidepressants and how it is up to the individual to work toward healing.


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
itspjw
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, January 1st (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"there is NO way to purify his penis"

broken gal in weird sadness thread.


no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...

there's just too much that time cannot erase

dday 9/11/08

And the more I know, the less I understand

Because of you...I am afraid...


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