Greeneyed, glad to hear from you, hoping things go the way you want it. As far as the baby that passed away, this may seem harsh, but I would focus on the living. This may be just yet another ploy from OW to cause confusion and fights between your H and yourself. Honestly, if it was your H's baby, don't you think she would have made more of a fuss about that during the time that you were helping her with the funeral arrangements?
You may never get an answer to that question and I myself would not dwell on it constantly. I would just worry about trying to repair your relationship and if you do get custody trying to mend your family. hugs to you
[This message edited by BMC0415 at 11:45 AM, April 24th (Friday)]
I'm sure it's all lies coming from her. She denied all thru her pregnancy and thru the baby's 4.5 months of life that it was H's. Now with things in court she throws this out there. UGH. I just can't help but question it now.
Well on a brighter note. I have found the reason for this, may sound really strange, but everyone always says there is a reason for everything, and mine is now I am getting my masters in Psychology, and now attending a mixed martial arts class, and going to be instructing until I finish school. How cool is this.. I'm now getting a life that is all mine, out all of this. And am finding some pease in that.
Hope you all can find your own sence of pease in this. Sending you all prayers. BE WELL.
OW is gonna bail.. i just know it, and dang it if i was gonna raise anothre baby, it should be MY BABY.. my blood relation.
Don't get me wrong.. I love OC and would do anything for her... but i thought we'd have a 50/50 parenting agreement or something... OW has us keeping the baby for longer amts of time, more days.. etc and baby is only 3 weeks. and OW...
i should shut up., god only knows who is reading this...
I feel your pain :(
((((((((lynne, beajus, dust2dust)))))))
Sorry you guys are having a rough time
Well OC's birthday was Saturday, she is 12 years old now. Nothing from OW this year, I'm not really that suprised cause since she is married now and has her "happily ever after"( ) she doesn't feel the need to torture us I guess. Still no word on her wanting to go through with the adoption . Oh well if it happens great, if not we only have 6 more years of CS, and we have done it for 12 years so what is 6 more
Don't get sidetracked by the possibilities of this child, get focused and see your attorney NOW!