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User Topic: Tactical Primer
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for so much information...this helped me


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2133 | Registered: Jan 2012
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping this up for the new people here...


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2133 | Registered: Jan 2012
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpsicle


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5140 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 6591 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
annb
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7548 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
forlornheart
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Member # 40726
Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is exactly what I needed to make sure I'm moving forward but also taking the correct steps

Thanks!
Deb


Me: 48- BW
Him: 45-WH-chronic cheater, PA and EA
Current Her: Mid to late 30's fatassed, no necked, troglodyte
D Day: August 23, 2013
Separated: August 23, 2013


Posts: 52 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Michigan
Camalus
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, September 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me–BS age 61
Her -- WS age 59
Married for 34 years
One child, 30yrs

Her 'A' 1994(?) through 1998
D-Day 7/4/2013 Yes, I didn't find out for almost 15 years... but the pain is just as bad as if she were with him last week.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Near Houston Texas
Simple
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Member # 18814
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1238 | Registered: Apr 2009
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for maddmurph.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4810 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4810 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Drowninginitall
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this. Marking for future reference.

Posts: 105 | Registered: Oct 2013
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, October 21st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2196 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
Skan
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, October 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4810 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
annb
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7548 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, October 31st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump bump bump do the bump


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8537 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, November 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3546 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
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