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Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
Almost Recovered
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.

Posts: 8895 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, August 31st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1656 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
annb
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Member # 22386
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, September 3rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7260 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:55 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5780 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22588 | Registered: Aug 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
Steppinglightly
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

Posts: 35 | Registered: Aug 2012
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, September 29th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 10939 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, October 7th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Time to bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, October 13th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

weekend bump.

Posts: 10939 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, October 22nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
hank9898
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 2nd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student

Posts: 149 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Minnesota
annb
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, December 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7260 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
BrandyT
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, December 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for bumping this Annb! Amazing post!

It really should be a sticky!!


Me- BS
Him- WH
M- 7yrs with two kids 6yrs and 6mths
D Day 1- 10/08/12
Insane month of lies and false R
D Day 2- Last discovery 11/23/12
NC with OW- 11/26/12
3mth sexual and emotional A
Moving forward and working on us.

Posts: 46 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: BrandyT
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