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User Topic: Tactical Primer
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, November 17th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
toby
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, November 22nd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump....for abyss.

Posts: 1559 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Texas
Dagny07
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, November 24th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 29 years, together 36 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

Posts: 837 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Midwest
SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, November 27th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping again!


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
socold
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 4th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

b


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, December 7th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

u


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, December 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

m


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, December 12th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3476 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, December 12th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump bump


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
isadora
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, December 20th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4519 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
tammyjean100
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, December 22nd (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford

Posts: 2273 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Capital District, New York
september7
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. Thank you for this positive topic. I feel better already.


D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me in not the best circumstances, but we're paying for medical school for one kid and college the other.

Posts: 156 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Florida
Sofia58
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, December 27th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great advice. Thanks.


D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."


Posts: 178 | Registered: Dec 2010
cass
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4970 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Up it goes !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
4myheart
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, December 30th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump so many people need it


"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

Posts: 547 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, January 1st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump it for New Years fallout.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Sofia58
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, January 3rd (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 55, female
WS - 57, male
Married 15 years, together 18

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."


Posts: 178 | Registered: Dec 2010
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, January 4th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another bump.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
momma3times
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, January 5th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump it!! Great sound advice!!


Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11

Posts: 76 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Southern part of Missouri
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