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User Topic: Tactical Primer
SummerBlues
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, July 28th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumped for newbies


"Inactive infidelity: Itís where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon
icansurvive
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, July 28th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! This was so helpful! I can relate to may of the things touched upon in this post. I'm going to the 180 right after this!


Me- BS 51
WH - 54
Together 11 years
Married 6
Kids - 4 grown adults (2 mine, 2 his)
Grandkids 3 with another one on the way

Posts: 356 | Registered: Jul 2010
SummerBlues
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, July 29th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumped


"Inactive infidelity: Itís where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon
annb
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, July 30th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump.

Posts: 7665 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
lostsuol
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, August 4th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just because...

Posts: 814 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Canada
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, August 7th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the new people.

Take care of you!


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, August 7th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am fiercely independent and I wonít apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18829 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:40 AM, August 25th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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redrock
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, August 28th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

- for Awesome


I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

Posts: 3163 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Michigan
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, September 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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annb
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, September 15th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump.

Posts: 7665 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
socold
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, September 23rd (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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sherman
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, September 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


17 years out from Dday, but sometimes I still feel stuck in the Wayback Machine.

Posts: 561 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: South Central US
Nicole5
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Default  Posted: 7:03 AM, September 27th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


divorced my WH on Nov 4, 2011
(see my profile for "the story")


Posts: 338 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: TX
diditagn
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, September 28th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Happy people don't have the best things, they make the best with what they have.

Posts: 1556 | Registered: Feb 2004 | From: WI
ppldontchange
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Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, September 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for taking time to post this.


BW 37 (me); WH 39(him)
Daughters 9 & 17 prev. marriage (me)
Married 5/2010
TT d-day 9/5/10 & 10/1/10
Status: Reconciled

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AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, October 8th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


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unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, October 10th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for all the new people here.

Take care of you. Eat. Sleep. Talk to your physicians about medication. Exercise.

You will get through.


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
CanISurvive
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Default  Posted: 3:39 AM, October 11th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity


Posts: 330 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: California
CryingGreenEyes
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, October 11th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read this over every once in awhile to remind me of what I need to do should my FWH make the choice to have another A. It is very, VERY valuable advice.


"The truth shall set you free... but first it's really gonna piss you off!"
"Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house you can never tell."

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