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User Topic: Tactical Primer
jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, May 8th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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flowermom
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, May 8th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wish this was requires reading for newbies!!!! Thanks!!!


Me-BS WHSA, 3 wonderful kids, all grown.
Denial is not just a river in Egypt

Posts: 570 | Registered: May 2009 | From: South
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 3:30 AM, May 15th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for the new hurting ones.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7829 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
lilac18
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me/BW 45
WH 35

DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled

"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." Ė Albert Einstein


Posts: 452 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Texas
SummerBlues
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for newbies


"Inactive infidelity: Itís where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon
SummerBlues
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, May 19th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Inactive infidelity: Itís where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon
justbreathe
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, May 22nd (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell


Posts: 432 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Swimming towards inner peace
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, May 24th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, May 24th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How I wish this was here when I first signed up.
Great Job!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, May 26th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
cass
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, May 30th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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AkKat22
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, May 30th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, I wish I had the guts to come here a year ago!


Me: BS 46
FWH: 42
D-day: EA/PA 19 June 09
5 Children
M: 20 years
Separated

Posts: 83 | Registered: May 2010 | From: North
Karma62
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, May 31st (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks SerJR

We are in R... but 1.5 yrs. out is still new to me.


Me: BS 48
Him: FWH 64
Married 19
D-Day # 1 31-10-07 EA?? (Denied!)
D-Day # 2 17-12-08 Full PA both years same OW
OW 37S Neighbour (NC)
Working on R with hope
"You have been Weighed, Measured and you have been Found wanting" -

Posts: 275 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Canada
Lotsa
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, June 1st (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

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ThriveNotSurvive
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bump


Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie

Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.


Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas
SummerBlues
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumped for ITSNOTMY FAULT


"Inactive infidelity: Itís where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger

Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon
sharonons
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for bumping this too. I needed to see this again.

Posts: 568 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: NY
whatdoto
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for bumping...I really needed to read this again.


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
FindingNolia
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tag


married 18 years
separated 7/2010
divorced 11/2011

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