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User Topic: Tactical Primer
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 6th (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17093 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, June 9th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 11599 | Registered: Mar 2008
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 5:02 AM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3443 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
lostsuol
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping...

Posts: 810 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Canada
jmac525
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I copied it as a word document so that I can read it when I need to get my head on straight. Very good advice and easy to understand, Thank you!


BS 37
WS 37
Married 18 years
Two children 12 & 18
D Day May 1,09
WS moved out May 5,09
I am hoping for R, but WW refuses and says it is not possible, she's "IN LOVE" I refuse to give up hope!
6-24-09,I really no longer want her back

Posts: 88 | Registered: May 2009
marvalon
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a great post. I am ready for all this. I have started some of this and will soon see a lawyer. I am going to stop his engagement in my financial affairs, which will make him blow his stack. He likes using all the write offs from my business, but I will be filing separate tax returns as long as this is going on. I don't trust his financial judgment anyway. He also wants money from me monthly. That's stopping. He has bought OW flowers on different occasions, and probably things I am not aware of. I am keeping your checklist handy as a reminder.


The most important person in your life is you. The person who you love the most in the world should be you! Why not? Who better than you?
Ayn Rand

Posts: 56 | Registered: Mar 2009
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, June 25th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for the new ones.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7799 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, July 2nd (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

another bump


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
Dust Bunny
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, July 7th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


FBW married 30 years to RFWH
(ps... F=former :P)

"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the progress he(or she) does not become a monster."
Friedrich Nietzsche


Posts: 3242 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Louisiana
still confounded
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, July 11th (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
D-day April 2005
(Married 33 years, together 35)
Divorced Dec. '05
Life is good, but it took a long time to heal.

Posts: 1291 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: up the river, NY
tractorgirl
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 13th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping yet again. there are so many new people on here all the time!!


BS=me, late 30's
FWH=him, early 40's
Married 15 years
OW=19 yrs old
2 boys: 12 & 9, wonderful!!
Reconciling

Posts: 1368 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: nebraska
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, July 30th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12144 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
nooneeverthought
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, August 4th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump to page one


it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

Posts: 8493 | Registered: Jul 2008
jewel123
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, August 11th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me 44
H 46 (paulie)
married 25 years (hs sweethearts)
dday 8-08
DS19
DS23
New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth. -Thomas Hardy
Reconciled! :)

Posts: 5524 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: MO
JustKeepSwimmig
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, August 23rd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Canada
mscuteone
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, August 24th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great advice

Posts: 117 | Registered: Aug 2009
JustKeepSwimmig
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, August 26th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Canada
jolene
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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, August 27th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^


Divorced 10/2013! Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!

Posts: 2189 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: btn rock and hard place
willthiseverend
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, September 5th (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for Chloe


Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.


Posts: 454 | Registered: Aug 2009
willthiseverend
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Default  Posted: 3:20 AM, September 11th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping this


Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.


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