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User Topic: Setting Healthy Boundaries
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 12:48 AM, June 6th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

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God's hand was an avocado branch


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Cee64D
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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, June 15th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, June 17th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, June 23rd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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Littlegirllost
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Default  Posted: 9:19 AM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boundaries = Stating the obvious.

If I have to explain to my spouse these rules and/or set them... we have ultimately nothing to talk about. I do not see the point in stating the obvious.


Me: BS 48 yrs.
FWH 50
D'day: 5/22/08
2 EA's, 1 PA during 5 month period of time
A Midlife Crisis gone wild
In R

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: New Jersey
hathnofury
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post. I need to keep this in mind as i write my boundaries out. I definitely would not have taken this approach on my own.


BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.

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Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, June 30th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

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God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
isadora
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, July 2nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


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jb3199
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BH-46
WW-44
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
Heading for D


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bufffalo
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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, July 21st (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
annb
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lordhasaplan?
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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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NewTurn
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BW-45
DDay too many to count! Many false R till final DDay Dec 5 2008
Divorced Feb 2009

Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results!


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bufffalo
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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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annb
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BW-45
DDay too many to count! Many false R till final DDay Dec 5 2008
Divorced Feb 2009

Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results!


Posts: 51 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Tx
Cee64D
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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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