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User Topic: Setting Healthy Boundaries
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 10th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1860 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, June 19th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1860 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, July 31st (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
blinders_off
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 358 | Registered: Dec 2011
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:56 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5810 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity-bump-bump


"The thing that always seems to be shocking to wayward wives is the simple fact that the man you choose to reconcile with is not the same man you cheated on." - a friend.

Posts: 1937 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
soconfusednow
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity-bump-bump

Happy you bumped this. I really needed to read this one. All though I didn't know that until I did.


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 306 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 6423 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
Simple
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1221 | Registered: Apr 2009
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for maddmurph.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Whattodo2012
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another good topic that I need to focus on. Rather than just get angry or irritated & expect the other person to know exactly what I need him to do.


What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Posts: 12 | Registered: Dec 2012
whereisshenow
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump from a very appreciative newbie.


Me: BS
Her: WS
Both in mid-40's. Together over 20 years.
Three kids all under 18 years old
D-Day: early September 2013
She is pursuing multiple relationships via online personal ads. Have not yet confronted her.

Posts: 6 | Registered: Oct 2013
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