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User Topic: Setting Healthy Boundaries
Lost and Betraye
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, December 8th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for phmh


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
isadora
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Member # 29130
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4506 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
AttemptStrength
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Member # 27947
Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for emilys


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1899 | Registered: Nov 2010
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, February 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1899 | Registered: Nov 2010
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, February 18th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25389 | Registered: Aug 2011
al35118
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Member # 33649
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Bh 48
FWW 31
Married Jan 24th 2012
D-Day June 17 2011
Then TT until Oct 19,2011

Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Bama
Edie
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Member # 26133
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5115 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, March 3rd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, March 10th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, March 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, March 30th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 35257 | Registered: Mar 2011
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1272 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, April 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
WakingFromADream
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Member # 33934
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, April 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


Posts: 1148 | Registered: Nov 2011
AttemptStrength
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Member # 27947
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, April 27th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for noideawhattodo


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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