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User Topic: Dealing With Depression
mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, October 7th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got my meds changed and feel worse than I did before. I know I should talk to my doc, but also know it takes time. I am sad a lot more before and after medication changed and have a very hard time getting out of bed, feel like I am back at square one.

Any advice.


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

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annb
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, October 7th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Call your doctor.

I've been on five medications and nada, either did not work or bad side effects.

If side effects last more than a couple of days, call your md immediately.

Hugs.........


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cass
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, October 7th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ann's right - don't delay. Call him. Sometimes it takes a few changes before you get the right one. He/she will be able to advise. Make the call for peace of mind.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, October 7th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just called my doc she is off course on vacation this week, so they are going to see if another doc can call me back, might be today might not. Just not sure if I should keep taking this meds until I talk to a doc or stop taking it. I am very wired today, I can't seem to stop shaking.

Frustrated


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, October 7th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of the side effects of some of these meds is shaking/shivering. If the meds are making you that ill, I'd stop them. My doctor told me to take them a bit longer because the side effects would go away, and I just got worse and worse. I should have listened to my own body.

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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel worse today, can't stop crying and not feeling very good. I seriously just want to craw up in a corner and be left alone and just cry until I pass out!

How am I going to get through this day! Why am I so weak!


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

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cass
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Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mommy

Did you get to speak to another doc? You will get through it. Just hang on in there.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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annb
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, mommy, we have all been there. You have two small children and need to do your best to remain strong and calm for them.

If you want to cry, go into your car and let it all out, you will feel a bit better.

I hope you were able to speak with another physician. Sometimes the meds can have the opposite effect.

Hugs, keep posting, we are listening.


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riseagain
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am bi-polar and have been the majority of my life, but wasn't diagnosed as such until I was in my 20's.

I have been on numerous medications and had many stays in psychiatric units. I've found at certain times medication helps me, but most of all it's a matter of being in tune with my body. For instance, I know from now until Spring will be the worst for me. I accept it for what it is and know it'll pass.

I have been off medication for about 15 months now, but am struggling more than usual so I know it's time to get back on a maintainance dose of something. It also helps to talk to others who can relate to what you're going through. Perhaps join a support group.

Please keep in mind mommy that this too shall pass.

((((mommy))))


Me: FWS 39
Her: XW 29

If you always do what you've always done you'll always get what you've always gotten.


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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of the other docs I called is scheduling 2 weeks out. My doctors office (who are a bunch of idiots in my opinion) is out to lunch so need to call back in about hour in a half.


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

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Stop
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mommy,

It is my layman's understanding that the meds that affect brain chemistry are pretty much a shot in the dark. Many work well for some but are a disaster for others. My WW was taking a very expensive one that almost took her out.

Some of them require a step down approach to discontinuing.

My humble recomendation is to stay around people who care about you as much of the time as you can until you can talk to your Doctor.

Best wishes.

[This message edited by Stop at 2:29 PM, October 8th (Thursday)]


Me: Recovering codependent BH
Her: Long term gambling addict, unadmitted,unrepentant,practicing sex addict.
I didn't cause it, I can't control it, I can't fix it.
"Healing starts when you start taking care of yourself and let go of

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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't get out of work guess I will try again tomorrow or will go to hospital when I get off work.

Thanx all


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Headed to doc at 3:30


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

Posts: 733 | Registered: Jul 2009
annb
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, October 8th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please let us know how you made out.

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riseagain
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Question  Posted: 9:26 AM, October 9th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did it go?


Me: FWS 39
Her: XW 29

If you always do what you've always done you'll always get what you've always gotten.


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mommy0508
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, October 9th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doc was pretty dumb. He was just going to address my sleeping and then it was my anxiety and finaly after stressing a good three times about my depression and how I was feeling he prescribed me an anti-psychotic to help me get by until my new doses of medication that I was prescribed Friday kick in.

Am very groggy and upset stomach this morning but I will keep taking it and see how it goes.

Thank you all for everything.


Wipe your mouth there is still a little bit of bullshit around your lips!
D-Day #1: 5/29/09
D-Day # 2: 7/1/08
D-Day #3: 6/17/10 possible oc on way and
my own little miracle on the way-miscarried!

Posts: 733 | Registered: Jul 2009
annb
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, October 12th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mommy, are you feeling any better?

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Cliche
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, December 10th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just posting to see how everyone is doing. Winter and the holiday season can be tough on some people.


BS - me 55
WS - H 56
DDay 3/28/07 I was 53, H 55)
3 kids 23.21.18
married 31 years
together 30
reconciling....


Posts: 580 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: California
hiswifefor20
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Helpless  Posted: 1:16 PM, December 18th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all, I've posted a couple times in other forums, but today this is where I should be -

I have suffered with varying degrees of depression forever I think. In 2000 my brother, my mom and my XFIL all passed away - I had a major bout of depression, suicidal thoughts and was diagnosed bipolar. I'm not sure if that is the right diagnosis - but.. I am in the deep dark hole of depression again. and it is scary here.

I found out just before Thanksgiving H was visiting escorts, and down I go. I am getting an appointment with IC for now, H has agreed to MC but, I can't even see in this hole. I was on tons of meds when I had my "big one" and ended up in the nut house for several weeks.. horrifying to even write that now. but, to everyone - the up side is:

This too shall pass, with IC and meds, things do get bearable and then good and then normal again. Good luck and huggs to everyone on this forum - I feel your pain!


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itspjw
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Default  Posted: 3:11 AM, March 24th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's very sad that this thread has not been posted on recently....I wonder how everyone is doing....

As for me, I'm trying to hold my own, and actually doing okay, considering, but it is still a struggle every day.

I hope to hear from the rest of you soon...


no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...

there's just too much that time cannot erase

dday 9/11/08

And the more I know, the less I understand

Because of you...I am afraid...


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