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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Iwillsurvive1
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, December 24th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for your prayers....God bless


Me:40. Divorced Sept. 2012
WS:57
M:4.7 yrs
DD: May 08
Jan 09
Status: Separated, I moved out

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2008
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, December 30th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are some very hurt people with heavy hearts and anger ready to boil.

There are those who's minds are sickened and disgusted and those that are stuck in indecision.

There are the guilty and the innocent, the betrayed and the betrayers all hurting inside from the cruel and selfish act of infidelity.

God in all of your mercy and with the spirit of healing grace, can you send some angels tonight to hold those that are struggling.

Please send some of the peace and warmth of heaven to the hearts of the hurt so they may rest and heal.

Please send the grace of forgiveness to those that are suffering the guilt of being human with all the weaknesses and errors that a person makes.

I pray to my God in faith.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, January 2nd (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone that reads this thread, those that never post but maybe read here.

Please say a prayer for dead_but_alive. Big prayers for she is hurting so deeply and life has handed her a very heavy load to carry.

May each of our prayers echo in heaven and angels come hold her on earth.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
Detached
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, January 5th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read tryingtwo's prayer. WoundedSpouse and I are having a very rough couple of days. I am trying to return to my Christian roots and beliefs. I will be praying for all of you and I will appreciate and hopefully feel your prayers tonight. Thank you.

Posts: 70 | Registered: Nov 2007
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, January 6th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am not sure if this is the correct forum, but 2 requests please.

1. Please pray for a friend of mine. This couple was a strong Christian example to me and the wife lead to me to the Lord. Her husband might be a sex addict, using prostitutes or even worse.

2. Can someone give me bible verse about forgiveness? I am specifically needing advice about how do I know I have forgiven WS or how to forgive. I know that the bible says I must forgive, but I am finding it hard. I am PTSD like after husband 1 and current yanked my trust out from under me.

Thanks for the prayers.


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1030 | Registered: Dec 2008
pebbles
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, January 6th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Words from Jesus Christ who was God in the flesh.

Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For the kingdom, the power and glory are yours now and forever.

This came to mind right away.


me: BS
Dday 7/23/05
This former rock has been blasted into a mound of pebbles.

Posts: 1283 | Registered: Mar 2007
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, January 9th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Pebbles. As a former Catholic, current Southern Baptist, this verse hit home with me and its one that I can remember.


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1030 | Registered: Dec 2008
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, January 9th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For Detached, I have been gone all week and didn't see your post until tonight.

Prayers such as I said are for the heart and soul of even those that have forgotten that prayers can be answered.

Sometimes it is in the struggle that we find the greatest strength of faith. For it is sometimes when we cannot see the answer or even know the prayer to ask, when we cannot find even the question that a person can finally lay down the stumbling blocks we have put in our own way.

May God shine light upon the path of Detached and WoundedSpouse so that each can push away the stumbling blocks to walk further to your light. May the hearts be soothed with God's mercy and love.

Lord I pray that Detached find the way back to faith and truth. I pray for a knowing in the soul.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
dremalou
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Cool  Posted: 12:46 AM, January 10th (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NOTE: (Please excuse me if I miss a word here or there or whatever. I hate pills, but recently had to accept that I needed to allow myself the help. My doctor of 25 years is a blessing and he said -- look you have too. So I'm struggling with focus, really don't like the feeling meds gives me. Feel weird not me....but then at the same time --- thru all that I do feel hope. Hope that now i won't have another panic attack. First, one in my life, 26 Dec 08. Yuck! Alone at home. Was a wake up call for me to stop this madness and let myself be taken care of. so i'm on meds and will continue to see my doc and go from there.

I said all that so that you know something about me and why i'm so thankful for you and this thread. please know that i will when more able, come back and read from the beginning so i can get to know you all.

but for now.....i'm just exhausted for so many reason...but... thankful i found this thread tonight. i so needed to find this thread tonight. thank you all for being here and for having this thread. very tired must sleep.... Now that I have found this forum/thread, I will come back when able to focus and read your posts and requests for prayers. i'm typing with Jesus strength and not my own, so please excuse any repeats....those are mine not His.

My prayer request:

Hello ALL,

Thank you for your kindness to join me in prayer for God's Will in my life.

Please join with me that I may remember --each day -- that God's Will is already done in heaven, even now, and that I remember THAT (each day) as I fight the good fight on his path for me. And that I can find more peace, more life, along the way that He has for me AND those that I love.
I stand on His Word and His Will for my life as in Matt 6:10....thy Will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
praising my heavenly father, thanking my jesus, and my comforter, the holy spirit here on earth for his forever continuing comfort thru my Father who loves me so, and for jesus who knows my pain as he suffered it ALL -- mine is so minor in comparison. thanking jesus for dying for me so that I can have access to my Father who knows what I need and knows the desires of my heart better than I know myself.

And, pray for His forgiveness for my disobedience to His Word. And, pray that I do not fall back to my ways, but always seek His Face -- thru my loving saviour Jesus, AND pray that I stay open to hearing His Will for me thru my Comforter, the Holy Spirit. Amen

Thank you ALL for praying with me. If you can, please join with me each day, in this my continuing daily prayer for God's Will in my life and that I seek His not Mine. Thank you for praying. Thank you SI family. My prayers for you and your family.

In Jesus, dremalou


BW/59 M25yrs, 2gether 31yrs (known H 4ever), D33/gsons/12&10/gdau/2yr
WH/62 East Coast A since May 97/Deep Fog
OW/64 never married only "Does" married men
Where's the man I married?...
Pro 5:20-23...lost w/o God
Ps 119:49-80 PTL

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: Northern CA
momofthree2007
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, January 14th (Wednesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My FWH is in the Army. He could get deployed within the next 6 months. We've been R'd for almost a year. Please pray that he remains faithful during the time that he's deployed.


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 15th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will share in your prayer dremalou. Faith and hope, wisdom and understanding. Forgiveness and grace. Mercy and kindness. These things bring the best part of ourselves to ourselves and others. May your heartfelt prayer be heard loudly in the heavens.

momofthree2007,
I pray that your husband's heart remains true to you and he remains faithful never forgetting the wonderful wife that waits his return. I also pray for his safety while deployed.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
dead_but_alive
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, January 15th (Thursday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TryingTwo -- RE:
Anyone that reads this thread, those that never post but maybe read here.
Please say a prayer for dead_but_alive. Big prayers for she is hurting so deeply and life has handed her a very heavy load to carry.

May each of our prayers echo in heaven and angels come hold her on earth.

Thanks so much for that post! I have been handed a very heavy load and feel like I will crash soon. It all started with WH's infidelity, then bankruptcy b/c of no help from WH, then a death of a close uncle, then 14 months of separation so far with no help and no child support, and then Dec 21st, my daddy committed suicide. Now, I am faced with grieving the loss of my WH, grieving the death of my daddy, probating a Will with 4 out of 6 siblings acting like asses, trying to make it on my own.......etc.

I do appreciate the love, support and prayers here.

I will continue to pray for each and every SI member as well.


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, January 16th (Friday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DBA, you are more than welcome. My heart just breaks for all you have on your plate right now. I know you have deep faith and it will carry you when at times you feel you cannot go on.

My prayers continue to be with you. tt


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, January 24th (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, I have been a not doing what I should. I have been on this site for too many hours and I don't know why. Are you drawing me here or am I just thankful for the company.

All I know for sure is that I have read so many posts of workers that are not able to work. Laid off hard working people that do not deserve the hard financial times we are having.

Money is the root of all evil. I will give you that, but then you best pay the electric bill. Sorry God if I am flippant but it just makes me mad that this world brings such trying times to people that are so worthy of more.

So I pray...for it is what I can do. I pray for those people that this economy strengthens. That those that need jobs to leave a bad situations find them. That those that are working so hard on themselves, doing their part will also find work to sustain their families.

I know I am an old softy from way back. I know I believe in something others do not see. I saw it. I know.

Please bring them more than hope. Send the angels to bring them jobs. I call upon the hosts and I have absolute faith they will arrive.

I pray in Jesus name, Amen.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
jenstamps2002
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, January 26th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, here's my first post to this site...

Please pray for God to move mountains in my WH. I am praying for not only a 2nd chance at a reconciliation, but a restoration also. A restoration of us individually, and together in our marriage.

I am exhausted, and trying very hard to cling to the Lord and His truth.


1 Peter & Phil 4:13
Me - BS
Him - WH
He's choosing her again.
1 DD almost 2

Posts: 1 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: I'd love to be in Margarittaville
Ingrid
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, January 26th (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is such a great thread!!! Please pray for me everyone, as I will for all of you.

IMO, if it wasn't for my faith, I just couldn't make it, with all the heartache in this life. Grief, hurt, etc.,

My faith is what holds me together, even though I feel I'm losing it.

GodBless Everyone.
Pray specifically I'll gather up enough strength to heal thehurt I've endured for the past 8 months. Pray I'll be able to love anyway. Pray that no matter what, God will give me the grace TO love the unlovable----namely my dear hubby of 19 years.

Pray God will use me for something greater than only this life can see.

**Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for all us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, amen."


Posts: 232 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: L.A. CA
dremalou
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Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, January 31st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Prayers sent UP)))


BW/59 M25yrs, 2gether 31yrs (known H 4ever), D33/gsons/12&10/gdau/2yr
WH/62 East Coast A since May 97/Deep Fog
OW/64 never married only "Does" married men
Where's the man I married?...
Pro 5:20-23...lost w/o God
Ps 119:49-80 PTL

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: Northern CA
Ballzlady
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Default  Posted: 2:50 AM, January 31st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Filed for divorce 1/29/09. WS is to be served Feb 1 at noon. Please pray for me that all goes well for me and that stupid doesn't become worse and make me suffer more than he has already put me through. Please pray that as we have no kids that this will be a SMOOTH (as it can be) divorce. Thank you.


Just do IT. God has your back.

BS - me 41,WH-38,heartless twat-24
D-day 6/5/08
M-14yrs;filed for D 1/29/09
unfortunate baby girl due 6/09


Posts: 1917 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Chicago, IL
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, January 31st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pray for Ballzlady Lord that the end of her marriage is done with as little discomfort and discord as possible.

It is time for her to start a new journey. Lord, please guide her kindly upon her path.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
doxiemom
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, January 31st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to pray for strength, wisdom and courage, for myself as well as all o fus on here. Also for God to keep his heling hand on me and my doxie Barkly who is having back issues as well as keeping his brothers Jake and Oscar sfe and happy. Please Lord keep your hand over my mouth and any and all relief you are able to give me is welcome. Lord please bless my support system online and the people in real life. Lord please help make this seperation and divorce as easy as possible and as I know you will provide for me and my boys I will give that all up to you as well as my anger. Lord I ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen

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