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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
tryingtwo
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Member # 19717
Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In Jesus name I pray...

For dead_but_alive, I pray dear Lord for answers to questions, for solutions for problems, for positive actions and decesions to quell the anxiety.

For gracee, I pray for Lord for her soul and heart to always stay as kind and loving as you made it. That no one ever be able to take that away from her by their selfish actions. I pray her life and the love in her life brings her nothing but joy for her future.

For thirdtimeacharm, I pray that all temptations and all circumstances with the OW be null and void, None issues, nothing and less than nothing to her and her husband. That the OW vanishes by being present in that void.

For surviving lies. I pray for the strenght of Job, the prayers and strength of David, the power of the spirit of God to wash away her weakness and invigorate her inner soul. I pray that the power of God's love and the sureness of his gifts and blessings so fill her that she explodes with strength to such a degree that she can do nothing but give some of it away because it so fills her being.

For Frog I pray for a new and exciting opportunity of employment for her husband that changes their lives to the positive and keeps that positive motion going for a good long time so that it may bring them some financial security and emotional security. I pray the change will be one of interest and challenge, but also of releif.

For HeavyE, I pray that the times of your life are sometimes silent so you can hear the echos of your soul. I pray that the moments of unsettled mind are few and the moments of warm and peaceful heart are many.

For MollyJo, God could it be you have a child for this loving couple? Could you maybe hasten the deliverance for them? I pray for all children OW or any on this earth. I pray that the relationship of Mollyjo and her H becomes stronger and more caring each day. Lord I ask you to hold her heart softly.

For unicorn searcher, I pray that all those afflicted with cancer are made well, whole or in remission.

I pray these things with all my heart and all my soul and all my faith. God forgive us as we sometimes know not what we do. Help us each to find our path that leads to you. Help us each to see our gift and the way we can best share our gifts for your purpose. I pray dear Jesus that you hear these words. I pray to my God to make them so.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
dead_but_alive
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Member # 20178
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 17th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, tryingtwo.

I continue to pray for each and every SI member (BS and WS).

Please keep me in your prayers as well. I have been having a very hard time. I'm crying alot again and want my marriage to work so bad. The 19th will mark 9 months of separation. 9 months of what seems to Hell on Earth. I have no one to turn to but SI and one sister.

Thanks in advance.

♥♥♥ Love in Christ, DBA

[This message edited by dead_but_alive at 4:40 PM, August 17th (Sunday)]


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
dead_but_alive
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Member # 20178
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, August 31st (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still praying for everyone here at SI. I hope some prayers are being answered.

Please continue to keep me and my children and my WH in your prayers. Things are no better after 9 months of separation. I'm getting more and more depressed despite upping my ADs and anti-anxiety meds.

Love in Christ, DBA


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
tryingtwo
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Member # 19717
Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, August 31st (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I send prayers to the hurt hearts and souls that have found themselves here on this website so devasted and lost. For those who are trying and struggling to R. For those that have chosen to D and are facing the uncertainty of the future.

I pray a special prayer for dead_but_alive and her children. May God give her light to shine upon her path and the strength and love of the Holy Spirit to lift her in her time of struggle. May the blessings that are hers become vivid in her mind and flow through her life. May her children be safe and happy always. I pray in Jesus name for a calm to overcome this day so she can have some peace.


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
dead_but_alive
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, August 31st (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, trying. I really needed that.


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
dead_but_alive
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Member # 20178
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, October 17th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers to everyone!

Please keep me and my boys in your prayers. 11 months into separation and I finally sent WH a certified letter giving him til this upcoming Tuesday to decide what he wants to do about our marriage. So far, he's been notified by the post office of the certified letter on Oct 15th and it's now the 17th and he has yet to pickup the letter. Probably knows it's from me and will ignore it as he does everything I send to him.

My boys and I can not continue to live in limbo any longer. My kids have given up hope on WH.

Good news though - both of my boys (16 and 11) have made a profession of faith during all this turmoil of our lives and they were baptised last Sunday.


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
vale
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Member # 16607
Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, November 5th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am feeling hopeless, lost. Please pray for me. I need Godīs help and support. Thank you and God bless you.


Ya no te quiero, es cierto, pero cuanto te quise...
Pablo Neruda

Posts: 817 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Mexico City
maddy
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Default  Posted: 1:25 AM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i need some prayers for clarity in making some decisions. i need a sign or something!! and for strength to follow thru.


Posts: 475 | Registered: Nov 2008
HPrynne
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maddy,
I pray to the Lord you will be given a sign that will help you find the clarity and strength you are seeking.


Me, FWW
Him, BH
Married: 17 years
DDay: Jan 2008
More TT: April 2008
Lie Detector test: July 2008
He said he forgives me: Feb 13, 2011
3 children (one of them during R -- what a blessing)

Posts: 220 | Registered: Mar 2008
HPrynne
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Member # 18545
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In all the months I've been to SI, I've never seen this thread until today.

And I take this as a sign from God because the next week, even more so than usual, will be extremely hard for my BH. His IC has given him an assignment to help him possibly forgive me for my sins.

His assignment is to write down an objective recap of what I've done to him. Please Lord, I know this will be beyond difficult and I pray that this will benefit us in the long run.

Please Lord, help me remember that this is about him, my wonderful husband. In the past I've tended to make things about me. My husband pointed this out to me late last week and I've done a lot of reflection on this. There may be many times this next week that I could potentially look at how I am feeling based on my husband's reactions to this

assignment. This assignment is not ABOUT me. This assignment is BECAUSE of me.

I love my husband so much and I am sorry that he has to go back to this horrible place.

Please God, let this be for the good of our marriage and good for my husband's mental health. Thank you God.


Me, FWW
Him, BH
Married: 17 years
DDay: Jan 2008
More TT: April 2008
Lie Detector test: July 2008
He said he forgives me: Feb 13, 2011
3 children (one of them during R -- what a blessing)

Posts: 220 | Registered: Mar 2008
HPrynne
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Member # 18545
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In all the months I've been to SI, I've never seen this thread until today.

And I take this as a sign from God because the next week, even more so than usual, will be extremely hard for my BH. His IC has given him an assignment to help him possibly forgive me for my sins.

His assignment is to write down an objective recap of what I've done to him. Please Lord, I know this will be beyond difficult and I pray that this will benefit us in the long run.

Please Lord, help me remember that this is about him, my wonderful husband. In the past I've tended to make things about me. My husband pointed this out to me late last week and I've done a lot of reflection on this. There may be many times this next week that I could potentially look at how I am feeling based on my husband's reactions to this

assignment. This assignment is not ABOUT me. This assignment is BECAUSE of me.

I love my husband so much and I am sorry that he has to go back to this horrible place.

Please God, let this be for the good of our marriage and good for my husband's mental health. Thank you God.


Me, FWW
Him, BH
Married: 17 years
DDay: Jan 2008
More TT: April 2008
Lie Detector test: July 2008
He said he forgives me: Feb 13, 2011
3 children (one of them during R -- what a blessing)

Posts: 220 | Registered: Mar 2008
vale
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Member # 16607
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

2008 has been the worst year for me since dday. I have often thought about giving up. The future for me isnīt clear yet.
Would someone say a prayer for me?

I donīt think I can survive another bad year.

Thanks in advance


Ya no te quiero, es cierto, pero cuanto te quise...
Pablo Neruda

Posts: 817 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Mexico City
HPrynne
♀ Member
Member # 18545
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, December 16th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In all the months I've been to SI, I've never seen this thread until today.

And I take this as a sign from God because the next week, even more so than usual, will be extremely hard for my BH. His IC has given him an assignment to help him possibly forgive me for my sins.

His assignment is to write down an objective recap of what I've done to him. Please Lord, I know this will be beyond difficult and I pray that this will benefit us in the long run.

Please Lord, help me remember that this is about him, my wonderful husband. In the past I've tended to make things about me. My husband pointed this out to me late last week and I've done a lot of reflection on this. There may be many times this next week that I could potentially look at how I am feeling based on my husband's reactions to this

assignment. This assignment is not ABOUT me. This assignment is BECAUSE of me.

I love my husband so much and I am sorry that he has to go back to this horrible place.

Please God, let this be for the good of our marriage and good for my husband's mental health. Thank you God.


Me, FWW
Him, BH
Married: 17 years
DDay: Jan 2008
More TT: April 2008
Lie Detector test: July 2008
He said he forgives me: Feb 13, 2011
3 children (one of them during R -- what a blessing)

Posts: 220 | Registered: Mar 2008
me+6
♀ Member
Member # 15035
Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, December 19th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My SI friends are in my prayers.

Please pray from me and my 6 children. Please pray that Wh will see that he needs to be there for his wife and children. Please pray we find peace in happiness in the new year.


me-36 WH-37
Married 16 years together 18
6 children (5,7,8,12,14,16)
DDay - March 4th 2007
DDay #2 September 13, 2008 EA
Separated Oct 24, 2008
7/1/09 He is coming home!
Beginning to R

Posts: 694 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: East Coast
prayful
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Member # 20961
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, December 20th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My children and I had a gut-wretching, crying, screaming, few hours yesterday. Please pray for all of us to learn to forgive, learn to love again, and stay together as a family, since their father walked out.

These next 2 weeks are going to be the worst experience of our lives, celebrating the holidays without their father and my husband.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, Pray for All of Us here on SI so we can get thru the holidays with some joy, peace, and happiness!!


BS (Me)49 yrs WS 46 yrs--D-DAY 5-16-08--He moved out 5-18-08 and she moved in w/him 6-7-08
Married 23 Years/Together 24 Years
2 beautiful, bright children. Son 21YRS (College)Daughter 18 YRS Mary,Undoer of Knots,Pray for Me!
In R since June, 2008

Posts: 38 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: PA
Iwillsurvive1
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Member # 20737
Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, December 21st (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am 6 months pregnant, has a toddler 18 months and at a crossroad....sometimes I feel like staying in this marriage that is not doing me any good and leaving. WH is not remorseful and I've discovered him to be totally different(negatively) than when we begun. I need prayers for strength and God's direction. Thank you so much ...God bless and I'm prayin for u too..


Me:40. Divorced Sept. 2012
WS:57
M:4.7 yrs
DD: May 08
Jan 09
Status: Separated, I moved out

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2008
I am Broken
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Member # 22101
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, December 22nd (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i'm 2-1/2 years post d-day and still not doing very well.Since d-day, I have prayed for all people in this situation,for complete healing and restoration for each person and marriage,even in the most seemingly impossible of situations.My favorite Bible verse is,"For know the plans I have ,to prosper you and not harm you and give you hope and a future.",Jeramiah 29:11.I hold onto this each day.H and I have been in reconcilation since d-day,but not making a lot of progress.Please pray we will be healed in all ways as individuals and in our marriage.(see profile)Please pray for our finances too,H. unemployed twice in last year.(economy)Working now,praise God!!!Plese pray I can totally forgive the whoreangatang.I don't want to kill her myself anymore,but still think about bad things happening to her,sometimes.Blessings to all!!

Posts: 14 | Registered: Dec 2008
tryingtwo
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, December 23rd (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pray first for vale. I pray for blessings to come to you. Some may already be there, but you may have to stop and be willing to open enough to see them. May God give you strength, but more, may a blessing come that encourages you in hope.

I pray for maddy that a peace envelopes her so she can clearly think out all the decisions that need to be made. Lord please let the light shine upon the path of the road that is needed for the best outcome for her.

me+6 you have my deep prayer for the health and well being for you and your family. More, May the door in your husband's soul be cracked open so the light can shine within the darkness that has resided in his selfishness. With that light let him see how hurtful his selfishness has been. May you husband not only see, but taken actions to change this behavior.

Dear God, please hold the hearts of prayful's children softly. It is a difficult time and season. May the salve of forgiveness replace the confusion and anger. May this holiday bring joy into the house of prayful and start healing the pains.

Lord may you please be with the heart and soul of Iwillsurvive1. May God give you strength to find the answers to your unsettled situation.

HPrynne, may the work that you and your BH are doing, hard as it is, lead to the healing of your marriage. May the relationship be fused with the love of God. May the hurt and pain, betrayal and deceit be brought to light so that each and every piece of it can be seen and disposed of in a healthy way. I pray for the heart of her BH that the love inside can shine brighter after the pain has eased. And may any guilt that rides within the heart of HPrynne be eased so that it doesn't poison any new beginning.

And Lord, just a note, Please can you take away the rage toward the OW of I am Broken? Because my dear God the feelings are normal, but it doesn't make them healthy. God, I ask today that you help her to let go and give the judgement to you.

This holiday is so hard for anyone that is dealing or healing with an A. I pray for the joy of the season to everyone. It is hard this year for many. May the small moments and gentle blessings be the best gifts of all.

In Jesus name...amen


Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.

Posts: 10311 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Oregon
vale
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, December 23rd (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for your prayings. It is the best Christmas gift anyone can give me.

God bless us all and show us our way.


Ya no te quiero, es cierto, pero cuanto te quise...
Pablo Neruda

Posts: 817 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Mexico City
I am Broken
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Member # 22101
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, December 23rd (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you,someone praying for me by name is a real blessing!Thank you.I haven't really had much support.Thanks!!!!

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