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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Maia
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, August 3rd (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"It seems a little bit of a contradiction, to say it's all about God, and yet her marriage is so good because she prayed.... As one who has prayed endlessly, lengthily, and persistently, what message am I supposed to take from this? I didn't use the correct syntax that she used so God is punishing me?"

Capri - I need to answer you.

no. it isn't about using the correct syntax.

it's about your heart being in God's will. Do you want God? or do you want God to do what you want?

there is a difference.

what is the difference between magic and prayer?

you might think on that carefully. It might answer your question, to answer that.

and God will not over rule a person's will. Your H has free will, he has choice. He can choose sin... You can present your H to God and God will act. God will speak to him. But your H still has to choose to listen. Your prayer can and will though lessen the work of the enemy and it will amplify God's voice, both of which will immensely help him.

God loves you. He really does.

and He can be trusted.

you must seek to HEAR him ...with all of your heart. seek to know His perspective and see what He is doing. It's much more about listening than about speaking. I hope that makes sense to you.

blessings.

[This message edited by Maia at 1:26 AM, August 4th (Saturday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, August 6th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying guys.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
sonumb
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs))) and prayers to all of those here.

I ask for prayers for myself to get through this ordeal. I ask for strength and for His guidance.


Marr - 39 yrs
Together - 41

Posts: 86 | Registered: Aug 2007
mz_deelyte
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Member # 15644
Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Needing everyone's and GOD's prayers.

Please help me to have a god like heart and spirit. Have mercy on my BF and I and deliver us from the situation we have unwisely placed ourselves in. Bless OW and alleged OC. Guide me in the way of ur will. Bless everyone on SI to have faith and love in you..... God Bless u everyone


Smiling faces tell lies....

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: NC
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for everyone.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone tonight. Wrap your healing hands around all of us as we battle our hurts and wounds.
Mz-an extra prayer for you as you face the possibility of an OC.

Help us through this week as we face the court decision that will define our financial future.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, August 10th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

heartbroken - praying for you finances.

Praying for us all!


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, August 11th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope everyone is doing ok this weekend.

Praying for everyone.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, August 13th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying guys.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
terrified
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going through a really tough time and am barely hanging on. I need your support and prayers please

Posts: 1557 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: Nevada
tater
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((terrified))) saying a prayer.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all. Still waiting, waiting, waiting on our court decision.

(((tater)))
(((terrified)))- anything specifically you would like us to pray about?

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
terrified
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, August 17th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm praying for all here. I'd like you to pray that God will blind my husband's eyes to the other woman and ultimately restore my marriage.

Posts: 1557 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: Nevada
Maia
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, August 18th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
capri
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, August 18th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all.


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, August 19th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for everyone. Giving thanks to Him and asking him to lift up our hurts to Him.

Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, August 19th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't been on SI for awhile, but I want you ALL to know that I pray for you each and every day.

You all are always in my prayers.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
tater
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Member # 12272
Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, August 20th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying guys.
terrified - praying for blinders!


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, August 20th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 9:20 PM, August 22nd (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't been on in a while either (my laptop is still in repair Hell) but I would appreciate your thoughts & prayers.

I'd like to specifically request prayer regarding not just my marriage & H, but especially that where He wants us to live (or even if we should live together) will come to pass. We have found a house that H & I both love (altho only H has actually gotten to visit it) & trying to buy that one means I have to sell my childhood home. I would not likely ever be able to return to this area, it's just too expensive now. And our marriage has been very rocky for a very long time, so moving somewhere where the ONLY person I will know is my H is rather daunting... Thanks all!


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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