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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
tater
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been reading in Psalms a lot lately and there are many passages that mention trusting in God. I think in the situation we're in, it's hard to trust. Please God, help us to trust in You.
Amen.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
hearbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guys, I just need additional prayers tonight.... I lost something important.

Thanks.
Heartbroken


Dday1 8/05 (LTA)
Dday2 4/09 (online EA 2 weeks then confessed)
Dday 3 8/10 ("full disclosure" of more infidelity prior to 2009)

Posts: 869 | Registered: Sep 2005
Abyss*
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tater,

thank you for bringing our trust to light. You are so right that during our troubles we fight for some control instead we forget when to trust in our Father who has everything in his control.

Praying for everyone in need tonight for strength to trust in God and put our troubles in His hands.


Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying praying.

I am having a hard time. Praying for strength.

Love to all.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((katie, just_s, coming, uni, tater, heartbroken abyss, anjin, and all ))))))

Praying for us all to find strength thru trust.
Amen


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying this morning.

I collapsed in pain last night and it scared me a lot but now I'm just angry. I'm in major pain and they want to do major surgery and I do NOT have cancer. This thing bringing me down is mostly harmless. It stinks. It reeks. I'm going to have it taken care of but holy cow. Does anyone besides me see a bit of WARFARE HERE?????????

look at us. look at us. I'm seeing it all over. Look at us.

I'm going to do some major intercessory prayer this morn, pm to join me.

and pray for me... for me to feel okay and be without pain, for the two cars to get completely fixed, for my computer not to crash so I can finish my work and for clarity, no foggy spacey head.

WHERE IS JIMINTX???????? Cowboy UP mister, and get on your knees with us!!!

praying also for Susie (which is her sn here at SI) - pray for the restoration of her heart.

thank you guys

[This message edited by Maia at 6:43 AM, April 26th (Thursday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
Surviving2007
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Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia--
So sorry to hear that you are in pain and struggling!

I am praying right now for YOU!!


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
tater
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia-praying for you now.


Me: BS 40 (Yikes)
WH: 40 (LTA)
3 children 12, 7 and 5

Posts: 1125 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: emotional rollercoaster in the midwest
stillbelievin
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia - so sorry to hear of the warfare that you are enduring. I will be in prayer concerning your healing and that you will also have wisdom to make the right decisions in your situation.

Yes I believe many of us are under attack from the enemy. He does not want us well, healed, in peace or blessed. He wants us destroyed and he will do whatever he can to accomplish this. Just remember that Jesus already defeated this foe and that greater is He that is IN you then He that is in the world. Be sure to put on God's armor today and continue to fight!

My prayers are with you Maia and everyone else here today that has needs. God is able to meet them. Like Tater said, we have to put our Trust in God.

Praying now.....

StillBelievin


Me: FWS
Him: BS
Married for 29 years.
Reconciling and looking forward to getting our lives back! Praise God we are getting there a day at a time!

Posts: 130 | Registered: Mar 2006
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the one car we had running, the rear brakes were totally out. I hit a pothole the wrong way this morning and got a flat and lost two hours and you know, it's almost funny. I laughed, I did. Because it is so obviously warfare. Now I cant drive that car because we only have front brakes on it and one tire ..and the spare.

My computer had a kernel panic this morning and then the beep of death just now and I'm running to back up my data before it dies totally and image the hard drive to my other mac so I'll be able to work.

none of these things are permanent damage, all of it will get sorted, it's all just major hassle and anything that can keep me distracted, upset, keep me from working and keep me off balance.

I sold a ton and could lose accounts if I cant finish.

and I rejoice. Right now. I'm praising God and rejoicing publicly.

my name is written in heaven. Hallelujah. I'm not afraid. I know my redeemer lives and though he slay me yet will I trust Him. I'm commanded to rejoice and by golly. I'm rejoicing. Because you know what? for all of the myriad trials, there is manifold myriad grace. And my Lord is sovereign and I will not be afraid.

I took that two hour waiting time and prayed for all of you. And I'm going to do the same as I copy these files over now. All the time given me that is stalled ...all the time to wait, I'll pray.

and praise

God is good.

and I just praise Him for keeping me safe.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Insomuchpain
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm lifting you all up in my prayers daily! God, please be with all SIers. Carry them and provide them guidance and strength. Especially with those who have not openned their hearts to you.

I have been praying that God give me and my WH strength, guidance, support and wisdom. The last few days it seems as though I have actually been begging God to bring my WH home to me, our DD and to God. Is it wrong to pray that way? I know all prayers are good. I'm just not sure what God has planned for me, but I do know he has a grand and glorious plan. God please open WH's heart. Show him the way. Show him the way.


Not "insomuchpain" anymore...
Divorced

Posts: 362 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: A better place now...
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

prayer, just lots of prayers for all of you. Thank you all for being my little SI family within the big one.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
firmforever
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I prayed the list this morning also and will add the new requests.

Maia your post was encouraging and a reminder to praise in the misdt of the storm, this song is great...

Casting Crowns
Praise you in the Storm

I was sure by now
That You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say Amen, and its still raining

As the thunder rolls
I barely hear Your whisper through the rain
Im with you
And as You mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

Ill praise You in this storm
And I will life my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
Every tear Ive cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm

I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry
You raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I cant find You

As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
Im with you
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
And takes away

I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth


Insomuchpain that is not a wrong prayer at all, there are no wrong prayers we just have to trust and wait that they will be answered which isn't easy especially if they aren't answered the way we long for.

((HUGS)) to all and prayers


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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying. Thank you all for your encouragment and reminders of trusting God, and that we will win this warfare. You are exactly correct - as you are, I am under direct attack - and I did think the storm had ended.

Prayer request: deliver F from evil and temptation. Give him the strength to see Your way.

If we can make it through the next couple of weeks without him giving into temptaion, I believe we will reach a new level (dare I say Win) in this war.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Petrinka
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here, and asking the Lord to deliver you from your pain, Maia.


Divorced May 31, 2007

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Nevada Desert
comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loved the Casting Crowns song. There is one that is titled "Does anybody hear her" by them that is chilling.

Praying for all of you.
He knew each and every one of you before you were born. Now how awesome is that?


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
Abyss*
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all of you here tonight. Our Holy Father hear's our cry for help and His loving mercy and grace is with us always because we are His precious children.

For all here I pray for God's love, mercy and strength to help carry our burdens and ease our pain. God be with all of you today.


Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
IEve
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love Resurrection by Nicol Sponberg
I'm at a loss for words, there's nothing to say
I sit in silence wondering what led me to this place
How did my heart become so lifeless and cold
Where did the passion go?

When all my efforts seem like chasing wind
I've used up all my strength and there's nothing left to give
I've lost the feeling and I'm down to the core
I can't fake it anymore.

chorus:
Here I am at the end I'm in need of resurrection
Only You can take this empty shell and raise it from the dead
What I've lost to the world what seems far beyond redemption
You can take the pieces in Your hand and make me whole again, again

You speak and all creation falls to its knees
You raise Your hand and calm the waves of the raging sea
You have a way of turning winter to spring
Make something beautiful out of all this suffering

chorus 2:
Here I am once again I'm in need of resurrection
Only You can take this empty shell and raise it from the dead
What I've lost to the world what seems far beyond redemption
You can take the pieces in Your hand and make me whole again, again

You have a way of turning winter to spring
Make something beautiful out of all this suffering


Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all of your heart. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge him in all your ways and he will direct your paths.

Posts: 356 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland
just_s
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Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, April 26th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, the evil one is after our little circle of SI - we are strong in prayer and faith - we welcome all into our midst - and he hates it. He sees the threat of the power of prayer. Please protect us from this onslaught, that seems to continue on and on. Grant us peace.

The two songs really touched me tonight. Thank you. Praying. S


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, April 27th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yesterday I learned something important.

everything thrown at me was aa hassle, nothing truly damaging if I responded in faith and not fear.

I found out what "the joy of the Lord is my strength" meant.

thank you Lord for all these pray-ers.

if we resist and stand firm, there is relief.

praying for you all today. through the list and the other requests as well.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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