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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
akaKatie
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Member # 13255
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am praying for all of you.

Please pray for me - that I will stay strong and patient, that I, with God's help and direction, can invite my H into true intimacy and walk together in God's love, that I will have the discernment and understanding to not try to make things right of my own accord, that I will give it all to God and just be a mirror of his light.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
itsa(bad)dream
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Member # 13174
Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for ME...I found out tonight that my WH is still in contact with the OW - this is WHY he acts so strangely with me. This is why he doesn't make a commitment to come back home. This is why he can't have a conversation with me without getting irate, screaming, and then acting as if he were getting sick. It's all about the guilt....

So, please, pray for me to do what I have to do. I need to get out of this life and stop thinking about him...PERIOD.
and, thank you.


M=13 yrs.(both 2nd M) ME:BS HIM:WH
1st A:summer 01. EA & PA
2nd A (3/03): same person,EA,never cut contact.
3rd A: 12/23/06 NEW OW. EA & PA(in contact with her for the past 2 yrs)
*4/15/07-we are NOT trying to R. Only I was.He's just being a

Posts: 249 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
Gingersnap
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Member # 13025
Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Taiwan is where he met OW and had A. Please pray for us as we travel there next week as I am not completly welcomed on this trip.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
rainedon
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Member # 12230
Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, April 21st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and more prayers for all of you. Ginger: you can do this- he can do this. Put your trust in God and let him carry you through it. Itsabaddream: no wisdom, just HUGE prayers and love coming your way tonight.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
14thebooks
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Member # 12661
Default  Posted: 5:53 AM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you all and sending thanks for your prayers and support.
You are all wonderful. My heart is overflowing...


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

Posts: 553 | Registered: Nov 2006
Gingersnap
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Member # 13025
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for us all on this beautiful Sun. morn (even the lurkers whom we don't know and cannot see, we care about you too!)

Thank you for your prayers, I feel your strength (which I crave - see my sig? )

Katie, 14, dream, Maia, Uni, kolive, just_s, and all - thank God we have each other. You are all blessings in my life.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Surviving2007
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Member # 14271
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all
One year ago today I met OM and my life changed. Here I am one year later, hurting and struggling, sincerely asking for prayers.

You guys I know that the Bible says God will not allow anything to befall on us that we cannot bear (paraphrasing)....but right now I am questioning that.

Please pray that I might receive the strength to go on.

Thank you.


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
just_s
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Member # 13240
Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all tonight.


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


Posts: 647 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: North Carolina
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all...

(((Surviving2007)))

God's strength and peace to you this week.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
firmforever
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Member # 12958
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm here thinking/praying for you all.

First day back at church in over a year.

Feeling so unloved by my husband, has been his way before the affair and after, feeling like chosing to stay with him was the wrong thing, want to beg him to love me but i just can't anymore, so tired of feeling rejected. Staying because I know that is what God wants, wanting to run to old habits but trying to do it God's way.

Well sorry for the vent. Thanks for letting me be a part of this group and for your prayers.


Posts: 303 | Registered: Dec 2006
comingundone
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Member # 12452
Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad you are here firmforever. Welcome aboard. Prayers for you and your family.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
comingundone
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Member # 12452
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Surviving2007)))
God also promises a way out when we are tempted. Lean on that promise.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
Gingersnap
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Member # 13025
Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you strength Surviving07. Praying for all.....


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Abyss*
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Member # 8849
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, April 22nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here tonight who has requested our Father's helping hand in their time of need. May His strength and guidence see you through.

Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
Surviving2007
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Member # 14271
Default  Posted: 2:35 AM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the prayers for me everyone!!!

Asking now for prayers for Mr. Violet and Violet..They are having a very hard time now.

Praying now


Me: FWW, 32 / Him: BH,33 / Children: DS, 9
Married 10 years; together 16 yrs.
DDay 1: 6/6/06 (I admitted A)
DDay 2: 9/22/06 (I left H for XOM)
Start of R: 2/3/07 (I came home)

Posts: 358 | Registered: Apr 2007
14thebooks
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Member # 12661
Default  Posted: 5:41 AM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Firmforever
Glad you are here.
But I have been praying for you all along.
Praying for all at this time this morning.
Will also pray that we will believe that God loves us and wants us to be happy.


48 y/o WW
50 y/o BS
Married 27 ys

Posts: 553 | Registered: Nov 2006
LuvMyWH
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Member # 12251
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry I haven't been around lately. I have been peeping in on everyone and keeping you in my prayers.

I need prayers in a bad way today. FWH is giving me and maybe everyone the cold shoulders.

Thinks have been so great lately, it's hard for me to even ask. But this is just sending my BS alarms off like crazy. Not in an A way, just the trust and insecurity stuff.

Sorry so short. Gotta get to work.

God Bless each of you.


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

Posts: 1305 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: In God's Hands
Crushed1
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Member # 6449
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey everyone, GREAT THREAD! GREAT SUPPORT for us all!

I have come to ask for your prayers for a fellow BS member here.

It has just come to my attention that she is very ill, with an "incurable malignancy".

She has five children. She is struggling with chemo treatments on top of the adultery hell she has suffered.

Please remember her in your prayers. She is in great need. We can make a difference in this wonderful, kind soul's life.

Thank you all and GOD BLESS!!!

Crushed1


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9614 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
2BFulfilled
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Member # 12214
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for your friend with the malignancy. Also praying for all SI members. We are all trying to heal, whatever the different circumstances...


Me: FWW 41 Him: BH 47 Dday: 9/06 3 children. Married 22 yrs. "It doesn't matter how beautiful you are, how rich you are, what your job is or how you were raised. Infidelity is an equal opportunity offender." - HeavyE

Posts: 1679 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Central Texas
comingundone
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Member # 12452
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, April 23rd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please....pray for me this week. Huge triggery week related to date/time of year.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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