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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
hope4now
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Abyss)))

I just saw your post and wanted to let you know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.


Me: BW 35
WS 40
2 sweet kids
2 OW (2005,2008)
filed for D twice
Struggling with R again

With God ALL things are possible. (I still believe!)

Posts: 196 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Louisiana
Abyss*
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Rain and Hope for your thoughts and prayers. I need God's strength to carry me through this darkness for I can't do it alone. God's peace to you.

Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
Maia
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abyss, I'm praying for you too. and for pebbles, hope and rained. right now.

He will carry you Abyss.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Hope)))) and abyss- continuing to keep you in my prayers today.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, April 14th (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am praying through the list. What comfort for all of us to know the strength and care of everyone here.

Abyss - I am praying for you and your H.

I am also praying that my H will allow himself to be vulnerable and find strength in God to move past his childhood wounds and those choices that took him away from God.

The Enemy is working harder than ever to keep us off-balance and away from God's blessings and our healing. Help me to be ever vigilant about this, God. And to stand for my H until he realizes that he can stand for himself.

PRAISE: H has moved the book, The Sacred Romance, to his bedside table.

Love to all.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
stillbelievin
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying through the list today.

Please pray that I will learn to hear from God accurately and stop getting defensive with my husband. Sometimes it is hard for me to separate "who I am" from what the sin represents. Please pray I see things accurately and learn to wait on God for direction in how to deal with things. Thanks.

SB


Me: FWS
Him: BS
Married for 29 years.
Reconciling and looking forward to getting our lives back! Praise God we are getting there a day at a time!

Posts: 130 | Registered: Mar 2006
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had a painful day.

H says he is unable to forgive himself. At first he said he was thinking of leaving me. Then later, he does not want to leave me.

I have forgiven him but still need to TALK. I do not pressure him and have been working on inviting him to want to talk.

Nevertheless, his childhood wounds and family-of-origin dynamics are keeping him imprisoned.

I told H that the Enemy works by dividing us and isolating us -- and he made a snide comment.

Truly, this house is under spiritual attack.

Please pray for us.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
Abyss*
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((aka)))

I'm sorry for your pain and I believe you because it was the same in my house as well. I prayed for my H's soul often who said the same thing as your's about forgiveness and leaveing.

The enemy is strong and in my case had a good foothold with my H. My H said when I would be nice to him it would make him run away from me. He had also said to me that he felt uncomfortable in our home and that was because of what was good there.

I now believe with everthing I know and piecing it together the enemy is the one that really destroyed my marriage my H was unable to fight it because our Father was the last thing he thought about. God sent my H a life line many times but he ignored the blessing. Sending you prayers and strength.


Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
rainedon
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abyss, aka, sb- keeping you especially in my prayers tonight.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone on the list tonight. Thankful for all of you, and praying for each of you.

Just a quick update. Last week seemed more positive, after a huge blowout last Sunday night, she seemed more positive - was talking IC and actually we talked about depression, and AD's...she is open to taking them to try and get "unstuck".
Our biggest obstacle right now, is that 1) She says she needs to understand how this happened to us better and 2) She remains mentally at the point of wanting to leave that she was right after D-day, and says she feels stuck there...I constantly am trying to find a way to satisfy both points...have looked for various programs and such. As Maia said, the "anti-versary" (good description)is really hard, and tonight she is not wanting to be together, but we did talk and she said that after her trip she could make an appointment for IC...and maybe it could become a joint counselling session.
The disheartening part is, when I try and tell her about how sorry I am, and that I love her and want to earn her trust back, she either cries or seems disinterested. I hope the counselling will help, but I'm still actively searching for other counselling or literature...she has had a hard hard time getting through the "Just Friends" book.

Still...after one year, thankful we are still talking, still spending some good time together. Last night we were together and she said after I passed out she wrapped around me as she fell asleep. That has to be good right? So, very thankful for those moments.

God keep all of you as we start a new week. I'm praying for each and every one of you. I have faith that God knows our hearts and hears our prayers, and I'm thankful for the strength and support of this group

[This message edited by Anjin at 10:03 PM, April 15th (Sunday)]


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wanted to share this...love this song.

Rushing wind, blow through this temple,
Blowing out the dust within;
Come and breathe your breath upon me:
I've been born again.
Holy Spirit, I surrender; take me where you want to go.
Plant me by your living water,
Plant me deep so I can grow.
Jesus, youíre the one who sets my spirit free;
Use me, Lord; glorify your Holy Name through me.
Separate me from this world, Lord;
Sanctify my life for you.
Daily change me to your image,
Help me bear good fruit.
Ev'ry day you're drawing closer;
Trials come to test my faith.
But when all is said and done, Lord,
You know it's been worth the wait.
Jesus, youíre the one who set my spirit free;
Use me, Lord; glorify your Holy Name through me.
Rushing wind, blow through this temple,
Blowing out the dust within;
Come and breathe you breath upon me,
For I've been born again.
-Keith Green


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
Maia
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LORD -

I thank you and praise You for all you are doing in the hearts and minds of those who love You. I thank you for your presence, your faithfulness and your purpose, to conform us into the image of your son. I thank you that you have blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places. I thank you that this world is passing away and is not our home and that we have a place in your kingdom.

Lord, the psalmist said that "I would have despaired unless I believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living."

Father, we know that this world is yet being brought into subjection and we know the war we are in. And so I turn now to You. I ask You to move in a manifest way, to come quickly to our aid Father and show us Your mercy.

I humbly ask of You to uncloud the minds of the WS's represented here and to speak clearly. That they might no longer be blinded by the god of this world, by their own sin and the lust of the flesh and the lust of their eyes and by the world forces of this darkness but that You might have mercy and grace poured out and overflowing even to these precious enslaved souls and they might know Your love and the life You have given and turn and give your name thanks and praise and glorify You in lives of obedience and holiness.

as one granted mercy, I ask this in the Name of your precious and beautiful Son Jesus Christ, my Lord, my King and my Redeemer. I place all of these under His Name. For Thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the glory.

amen

[This message edited by Maia at 11:13 PM, April 15th (Sunday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Abyss*
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, April 15th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen....Thank you Maia

Posts: 335 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Michigan
Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((((rained)))))))))))))))

you made my day. praying the list.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Maia
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying the list today guys.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Gingersnap
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Extra prayers for the families and friends of the victims (so widespread as we well know) in Virginia.


~ it's just a matter of pride, but that's all I've got left ~ damageplan.

Posts: 1085 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: California
Maia
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying right now for them


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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rainedon
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I think of the hard things in my life, I try to focus on the positives: my family is safe- my H and kids are healthy. My heart breaks for the victims and their families in VA. Praying with all of you for them and remembering each of you as well.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

Posts: 7609 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: New Mexico
Anjin
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for the people in Virginia...also especially Abyss, akaKatie, Maia, and Stillbelievin...and all on the list


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
just_s
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 16th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abyss, aka, sb,Anjin hugs and prayers.

Praying thru the list tonight. Fervent prayers for all those involved in Virginia. How horrific. At least my children are safe at home with me.


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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