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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread is for WS's and BS's both No debates about religion. This is purely for consistent prayer support.

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nitwhit
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice! Thank you MODs! Wonderful idea..

I guess we need to get "the list" posted up in here now huh?

NitWhit- Please pray for my H and I to continue to heal and grow closer to God. And special prayer for me for the compassion I need to deal with xMM and his W paying visits to our congregation.


"A good conscience is a continual Christmas."
~Benjamin Franklin

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just_s
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Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi guys! Our new home. Welcome home all. All welcome.

Praying for all tonight. Please pray for me. I am struggling terribly. Thanks Luv for mentioning power of a praying wife - I pulled my copy out again last night. Lord change me.


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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alwaystheenabler
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need special prayers tonight.

My WS and I are flying to Tarpon Springs for a meeting to get him detoxed off some very strong meds.

Then on Easter Sunday we fly down to get ready for the treatment which starts on Monday.

I need all your prayers and thoughts so that this will work and he will get his life back together. Drugs have destroyed him inside.

He IS worth saving and I need all the help I can get.

Thank you
ate


We ended the relationship as friends.........you can reach him at lyingcheatingmotherfucker.com :)

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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, took me a minute to realize what had happened, but found it.

Praying for everyone on the list - especially Maia. I pray God gives you his strength, encouragement, and wisdom in this hour of need. Don't be fooled by the dark thoughts. I pray God's light will shine through to you and be a lamp at this time.
And to all, may God be with you all as we go through this week together.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hey guys... I'll copy the list over soon, let's give some newbies that I hope come along the chance to post requests.

and thank you for the prayers, I am better.

I will also copy the six "s's" from the book I used to model the original thread, they are just helpful guidelines and suggestions but also what I use and I thought maybe it'd be good to share that.

praying for all requests.

[This message edited by Maia at 9:29 PM, April 2nd (Monday)]


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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ToddC
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ATE,

So sorry. This has to be tough.

Prayers headed your and WH way...


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comingundone
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Alwaystheenabler and husband)))
(((Nitwhit)))
(((just_s)))

Hang on my friends. Help is on the way!!!

Have always loved the saying....There are years that ask questions and years that answer them.


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 11:42 PM, April 2nd (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Guys!

WS just called & besides him telling me ILY in front of his D, he said she recognized some shopping help he'd gotten picking out the baby gifts he took to her (expecting the first granddaughter for either of us next mon) & sent a thank you. That may not sound like much, but since the nite she saved me from trying to commit suicide, she has refused to speak to me so that was HUGE & brought tears to my eyes. If nothing else, I hope that indicates that she has been able to do at least some healing from the effects of that hellacious nite.

Prayer Request:
Continued good safe journey for WS, that the foreclosure issue be resolved favorably soon (next scheduled sale date 4/9); that WS stay on the right track & both of grow in patience, love, wisdom, hope & faith as well as all the struggling couples near & dear to our hearts. Also that WS's D have a safe smooth labor / delivery & healthy baby.

Hey, Maia, wanna take a coffee break with WS? It looks like he'll be going thru your neck of the woods. Wish I could do that with you!

[This message edited by unicornsearcher at 11:46 PM, April 2nd (Monday)]


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

uni, pm headed your way :-)

praying for you all this morning. I want to give this a little more time and then will repost the list.

please pray for me not to "hear" negative things in my heart. I'm really bombarded right now. ("Whore" seems to be a perennial favorite) pray that I stay focused and watchful. Pray for me as I plan dividedheart.com. My big prayer right now is that God show me where I am a hypocrite and lead me in honest change. PRAISE that H seemed much better last night and I was able to put away and release my resentment and anger. and for the car being paid for, that was such a blessing.

thank you all for your faithfulness.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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nitwhit
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My prayer was being answered AS I was requesting it!!

Our elders are going to tell the xMM Family not to visit our congregation anymore until 2009..

I don't have to be anxious about going to worship now!

Praise God! Thank you for your prayers!!

((Maia))
((Uni))
((just_s))
((alwaystheenabler))
((anjin))
((comingundone))

Bless them Lord, comfort them and protect them.. give them all the strength they need for their individual situations..


"A good conscience is a continual Christmas."
~Benjamin Franklin

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comingundone
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo Nit!!!!!!
Our God is an awesome God!


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

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comingundone
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here comes a GUSHING request. I hate working with my mother in law. I've done it exclusively for 7 years. Have been at same hospital for 17. My H. is commuting 150 miles round trip to work. We need to move. That is obvious. I need to trust God on this and it is so hard. I need a NEON SIGN GOD!!!!!!!!!!!


Me/FWS-45
Him/BS-44
2 great kids(15,11)
1 high-maintenance dog
Love isn't in the falling, it's in the staying. ♥

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Midwest
nitwhit
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hehe Comingundone!

Prayers going out..

I love my MIL, but wouldn't want to work with her!


"A good conscience is a continual Christmas."
~Benjamin Franklin

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2BFulfilled
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a praise.

Last night I was driving to my IC appointment and I was driving on almost empty. I got to my appointment, which was 45 minutes away, and the gas tank flashed 'red': empty. Ugh. So I thought, well I will have to go get gas before driving back home. An hour later, I got into my car and looked in my purse for my wallet. No wallet! Called DI, and yes - my wallet, along with my cash card, was at home. But when I turned the ignition, I looked at the gas tank and... it was up to 1/4 of a tank. I kid you not.

Now. How did that happen?

I believe God gave me what I needed. I swear I am not making this up.

Thank you, God.


Me: FWW 41 Him: BH 47 Dday: 9/06 3 children. Married 22 yrs. "It doesn't matter how beautiful you are, how rich you are, what your job is or how you were raised. Infidelity is an equal opportunity offender." - HeavyE

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Anjin
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you undone, and everyone else!

PRAISE: Had a tremendous weekend together. Talked a little bit, but most of it was relaxed, and intimate, and loving, like in the early days of our relationship. I'm thankful for those moments. She still hasn't said "I love you" yet but I feel those actions speak louder.

PRAYER: She is still on the edge, but back to saying she will read the material again and see an IC if it gets too rough. She is very undecided, with one foot out the door. Please pray that God will help heal her heart; she has a big trip for business coming up soon - will be gone for two weeks, and she is fearful she may not miss me while she is gone. I am hoping this will be a "good" being apart and not a "Bad" one. As usual, prayer and any advice is appreciated.

Praying for you all!


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

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just_s
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So many needs and requests here. Praying for you all tonight! This thread is so full of the faithful - you guys save me. Even when I am so low I can not post, I read here and feel comforted. Thank you.

Praying for each of you tonight. Blessings and peace. S

Coming - I love that quote! Thank you. I've never seen that one before.


Seek JOY

DDay - 12/14/06


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spitintheriver
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for all of you tonight and during this (for me) holy week.

I had this emailed to me by our Pastor from a church member and thought I'd post it here, not sure of it's origination, but it seems like I'm seeing so much negativity lately, just wanted to share it.

Heavenly Father, help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.

Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares .

Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together .

Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.



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unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 10:50 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I always love to read that one, such a great reminder to keep perspective! And you notice how well it goes with my tagline?


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

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rainedon
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I posted about this in general- but I really need prayers too. Long story- H has herpes (just found out) and I'm terrified I do too. Thanksgiving for the support from my SI family.


"I know you're fed up, life don't let up for us...When I look around, I see blue skies, I see butterflies for us." Macy Gray

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