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User Topic: Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for a member.

Posts: 36494 | Registered: Mar 2011
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for TheOtherWoman


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2679 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, September 27th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1146 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, October 1st (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump again


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1146 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
bookjunkie
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Member # 39033
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Lucy17


WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed
Reconciling

Posts: 75 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern USA
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ Member
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, October 18th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1146 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, November 7th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump for lostinca


FWS me 36 (recovering addict)
BS him 39 AFrayedKnot
Together 7 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1146 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Maia
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Member # 8268
Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, November 8th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every once in a while I login to see how you guys are.

And your replies make me really grateful.

peace.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6160 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
bookjunkie
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maia,

I just want to say "Thank You" for posting this. I have read it many times and today something clicked for me. It was this:

sow a thought reap an action. sow an action reap a habit. sow a habit reap a character. sow a character, reap a destiny.

I realized I was having alot of thoughts but no actions and I'd become stuck. So I got up off my butt and started to move.

Thanks again for this post. I don't know how I would be getting thru without this site.


WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed
Reconciling

Posts: 75 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern USA
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2802 | Registered: Oct 2012
finallyfree2011
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Finally saw this - bumping to read later


Me - WS
H - BH

D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM

Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012


Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2013
hallelujah
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 107 | Registered: May 2011
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Lillibug


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

I edit often because I make a lot of typos. ☺️


Posts: 1511 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, December 22nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for stillkicking


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


Posts: 2802 | Registered: Oct 2012
hallelujah
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, December 24th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for aLostSoul

Posts: 107 | Registered: May 2011
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for confused43


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
LovesLaboursLost
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, January 9th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for regrette


I'm a work in progress.

Posts: 82 | Registered: Oct 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, January 13th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for newbies


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6437 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for EMO


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6437 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
JustDesserts
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, February 2nd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Marriedman2013


2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
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