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User Topic: Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, September 6th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for lostpainful


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Sandcrab
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, September 7th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't want this to get lost....


I ♥ LostJim

Adopt a chihuahua in your area
http://adopt-a-chihuahua.adoptapet.com/


Posts: 5618 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: wishing I was on an ocean beach somewhere...
Sandcrab
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, September 8th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I ♥ LostJim

Adopt a chihuahua in your area
http://adopt-a-chihuahua.adoptapet.com/


Posts: 5618 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: wishing I was on an ocean beach somewhere...
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, January 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping before it's lost.


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
outtamymind
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting this and to those who bumped it up. I'd have never seen it.


Me: FWS 45

Divorced


Posts: 306 | Registered: Oct 2011
Maia
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, January 17th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, January 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's another bump.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, February 20th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump, Hope this helps you.


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
Betrayed~H
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, February 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - 41, BH (Madhatter as well)
Her - 39, WW
Together 18 years, M for 11
Dday - 05/01/11
DS - 9 yo
DD - 5 yo
TT discovered 12/26, it got ugly
Separated 12/26

Posts: 53 | Registered: Jan 2012
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 3rd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For Frostian


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, March 9th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for rcant


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
rollercoaster80
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, March 10th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First time I've seen this post...found it helpful even as a BS.....wise advice to unstick yourself from an unhealthy cycle. I have a son struggling with addiction....this would be great advice to him....sadly he must follow his own path.Thanks Maia!


me 55 fbw
him 67 FWH/SA
married 32 years
together 31 years my whole adult life!
4 s, 1 stepd, 2 grand kids

multiple A's, 2 LTA's,multiple indescretions...before and throughout our marriage


Posts: 1047 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: sarasota, fl
Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, March 12th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rollercoaster, the path out of slavery is the same, doesnt matter what enslaves you. I will pray for your son. And for your heart.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, March 12th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
rollercoaster80
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, March 12th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Maia. We can use all the prayers we can get. Life is a journey not a destination....but geez sometimes the road gets so bumpy....he seems to be moving on....HOPE....always have hope


me 55 fbw
him 67 FWH/SA
married 32 years
together 31 years my whole adult life!
4 s, 1 stepd, 2 grand kids

multiple A's, 2 LTA's,multiple indescretions...before and throughout our marriage


Posts: 1047 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: sarasota, fl
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, March 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for justliving


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

Posts: 1594 | Registered: Jan 2010
justliving
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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, March 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Alot here and it's sooo much. I grew up a christian and fell from GOD for the past few years. It is something that I want to rectify in my life but am scared to deal with my GOD issues... Thanks for the reposting wincings_sparkle. Thanks Maia for taking the time to share so much. I know that SI is where I need to be. Will be a frequent reader of your advice.


Me, 33 WS
Him, 33 BS
Children 13,10,5
Married 11 yrs...
D-Day February 18th, 2012.

Everyday is a New Day!


Posts: 31 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: usmc
Maia
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, May 23rd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hey justliving!

I'm on and off here depending on Life. but will make an effort to be on if someone asks ;-)

someone did.

will be praying for you. all issues usually end up being God. but it doesnt have to be that religious pie in the sky impractical-just-makes-you-guilty type of thing.

it can be really healing.

just take baby steps.

peace.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
thegooddokta
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting for this newbie. I really, really needed to see this. Knowing that there is a withdrawal process and that the pain I am in is normal has been invaluable for me. I am at the very beginning of this process of ending A and seeing if R is possible. I need all the guidance I can get.


Me- BW 43
Him- WH 35
1stDday Dday 4-19-12
Married 9 yrs
Divorce sched for June 2013
2 kids 5 & 8

W/H-currently has a new girlfriend. We are still living in same house.


Posts: 118 | Registered: May 2012 | From: CT
Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, May 29th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you are welcome dokta.

the choice is one you make daily, to End it. sometimes it is a choice you make minute by minute. It isnt a one time thing.

keep choosing to end it. it's only when you do that that you heal.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6152 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
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