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User Topic: Maia's Withdrawal Survival Guide (repost for newbies)
Maia
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, October 27th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6158 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
Proview
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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, October 28th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Maia!

Posts: 81 | Registered: May 2009 | From: AZ transplant
Maia
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, October 30th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you're welcome, Pro. bumping by request. hope it helps


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

Posts: 6158 | Registered: Sep 2005 | From: I am a Bluegrass-American
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, December 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the newbies and even as a re-read for the older ones too ... cough cough ..


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3280 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Lost68
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, January 4th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

Posts: 1476 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Sevilla
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, March 10th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was time to bump this back to the front where it might be read again and the wisdom in it shared once more. BUMP!


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3280 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
leftoolate
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, March 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for Merlin.

~L.


If you came this far, you're looking for something. - Jrazz

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, March 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really needed this. Thanks to whoever bumped it!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

ďFollow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and donít take any shit.Ē


Posts: 5286 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, March 13th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

rachel...we've been there.

take one day at a time.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, April 8th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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jdt1973
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, April 8th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That was awesome. Thanks for this post!


After all is said and done, just shut the hell up.
WH(me) 38
BS 38
Togethher 21 years, married 19
5 kids - 17,15,12,10,2
DD#1 4/2001 - EA/PA
DD#2 10/2009 - EA/PA
DD#3 1/4/2011 - EA/PA same AP as DD#2
R - trying hard

Posts: 175 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Texas
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, May 8th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for any newbies.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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sunnyrain
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, May 8th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you maia (and clarrissa). i've seen this thread "bumped" many times but never actually read it.

this morning, i read it.


"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are welcome sunny.

Did it help or are you still in quicksand?

I am praying for you.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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sunnyrain
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hi maia! thanks for the prayers... much appreciated.

re did your thread help?-- most definitely.

got this little gem from another member which has also helped:

i am directly responsible for the choices i make. the choices i make affect the people i love and those around me. it is my responsiblity alone to make the right choices. i will make the right choices today.

re still in quicksand?-- well, like your quote says: uncomfortable is not the same thing as unable.

ty, sunny


"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, May 12th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

keep a notebook of the Truth you get daily, it'll help.

good, good. glad to hear you're plugging away.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, July 9th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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whatnow2011
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, July 9th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

uncomfortable is not the same thing as unable
I like this.


Thanks for all the bumps.


Grateful for every day I am given the opportunity to show ConfusedBH how important he is to me.
Me: WW (heartless, selfish & boundaryless) Him: BH (ConfusedBH)
Married 20; together 24
DDay: February 2011
Working on R

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Maia
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Default  Posted: 6:36 AM, August 24th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, September 5th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I ♥ LostJim

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