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cuckhold (original poster member #25015) posted at 9:21 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
For all members. Do you remember the first time you had sexual intercourse? Who, when, where, the circumstances?
Nicole5 ( member #17794) posted at 9:22 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
divorced my WH on Nov 4, 2011
(see my profile for "the story")
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes. MrH was my first. First kiss too.
And yes, I remember the details and circumstances of the first time having sex.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
betrayedandnumb ( member #24903) posted at 9:44 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes. Everything about it.
BW- me
FWH-him
3/28/09 The day he started skiing down the slippery slope
4/26/09 The day it turned PA
Dday #1 7/13/09, #2 7/16/09, #3 10/23/09, Major setback- 8/13/10
In R
srb1608 ( member #19477) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
BS- me 37
WS -him 37
Married 13 years
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes. My wife. Every last detail 17 years ago.
emeraldisle ( member #20480) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Exactly the person, exactly the place, exactly. Yep, I remember.
Me: BW, married 14yrs
D-Day 04/2008; 07/2008; 10/2008; 03/2010 & 08/2010
DIVORCED, and moving forward
icbtih8 ( member #23797) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
yes. WH was my first. because of the A, my first time loses it's "specialness" or rather the "specialness" that i attached to it when we got engaged. 
now it's just another milestone. nothing special.
D-day #1 - April 29, 2009
Beauty is a calling...a call "to transfigure what has harden or was wounded within you"
-- John O'Donohue
whydidyou ( member #29388) posted at 9:51 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
YES, I remember every detail except the date. (34yrs ago)Who,when,where,what time of year. Guess that's why it's hard for me except the "I don't remember statements of a ONS, with someone he knew very well? huh...
BS (me)
WS (him)HowIHeal
DD 1/2010
ETA. IPAD auto correct stinks, sorry for typos and numerous edits!
hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 9:52 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes, I remember. I was older (21). It wasn't that big of a deal. It wasn't an earth-shattering experience for me. I remember the guy and the where. I don't really remember the details (it's faded after all the years).
Why?
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
needsomehelp14 ( member #28631) posted at 9:53 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Sure do - person and place, not date
BS (44) Me
FWW (46) Her
FOM (45) Her Co-worker/My friend
8+ year A
Married 17 years
D-day 2-26-10
A ended 9/08
"When the game is over, I won't walk out the loser, and I know that I'll walk out of here again"
ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 9:54 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Who, where, circumstances, and month/year, not date.
It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.
NewAttitude ( member #1030) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes.
It was my H and I remember everything, including the date.
Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 9:58 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
marrey ( member #22614) posted at 10:09 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes, and I was 13 years old! that was many years ago. It was with my WH (my one and only) and I can tell you everything of that day. 
Me-BS-36
HIM-FWS-41
3 kids
Married 19 years/2gether 24
DD may 1st 2008
Ow36-couple was our best friend..
Time heals all wounds, but will never erase the pain.
shattered123 ( member #27843) posted at 10:10 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 10:16 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes, but it was 1/2 of a first time. Hurt too much, and we stopped halfway in. He was also using me and had a girlfriend at the time I didn't know about. It was pretty horrible. I cried, realized I was better than that, ran across the tracks back home at 3 a.m. and didn't have sex again for 5 years. I was pretty disgusted when I ran into him when I was 35 years old and he smugly said to me "Do I know you?"
Just found out he died a few months ago from alcoholism at 49 years old. His wife was in the middle of divorcing him.
Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16
sullymeishadomi ( member #16305) posted at 10:18 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes. I waited. Til I was 22. It was a big mistake. I should have waited longer.
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 10:19 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
UR_AN_IDIOT ( member #18764) posted at 10:24 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Yes. Person, place, details and general time of year but not the date. It was no one who ended up being special so the date fell by the wayside, otherwise I would still remember it.
Me: BW 56
FWH: 58
Married 33 years
DD 31 DS 28
Reconciled
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